How can I get my soon to be ex-wife deported?How can I get someone deported?
from?How can I get someone deported?
sure if you want to live with the fact that after you did it your going to be entertaining the evil thought of what you done
please don't get her deported. It is a terrible thing to mess up someone's life so badly
To Europe?
Ur stupid u just want to deport her cuz ur hurt .. Get a life n don't even worry about her pssss
lol ya your being an *** dude. Move on with your life instead of being a prick about the fact she's leaving you. Have a little class if that's possible for you.
Report all suspicious activity to ICE: 1 (800) 767-1833
let me bang her a few times , then ill be happy to give her a ride to were ever she is from
You don't, forget about it and move on. There's no need to be a little brat about it
You cannot .....
and that affidavit of support you filed is hanging over your head ..
it does not end with divorce
If she get a smart lawyer .. you are cooked..so be very nice
Friday, August 20, 2010
Can someone help me get my ex boyfriend back?
So my ex and I broke up a little while ago and I went about getting him back in completely the wrong way. I broke the cardinal rule and continued talking to him all the time and telling how much he hurt me, I missed him, and how much I think we belong together. Obviously this didn't work because he basically saw that he still had me without needing to actually be with me. How do I turn this around and make him come back? Is it too far gone?Can someone help me get my ex boyfriend back?
No-one can get your boyfriend to go back to you. It is up to him and him alone. But by the sounds of it, he has moved on from you, so now you must do the same and get on with your life without him at least. You have got to keep your mind active so that way, you are not thinking of him all the time. Do some travelling and meet new people, and do things you have always wanted to do, but put off for reasons that you only know. It is now time to start afresh, and live life to the full. Who knows, you may even meet a nice guy a long the way. Good luck.
No-one can get your boyfriend to go back to you. It is up to him and him alone. But by the sounds of it, he has moved on from you, so now you must do the same and get on with your life without him at least. You have got to keep your mind active so that way, you are not thinking of him all the time. Do some travelling and meet new people, and do things you have always wanted to do, but put off for reasons that you only know. It is now time to start afresh, and live life to the full. Who knows, you may even meet a nice guy a long the way. Good luck.
How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
My cousin and i recently had a falling out. She was lying about something that she did and blamed it on me anyway, she has started talking about me, trying to take 2 of her ex best friends boyfriends and i want her to stop ive tried to talk to her in private lied her butt of about it, one of her friends lets call her Erin got in her face about everything, her other ex friend is waiting for her to piss her off one more time and im sick of her talking about me and im tired of it any ideas?How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
You can't controll her actions or words in any way. But you can control the way you feel. Let go of what she says and realize it's all so shallow. Petty small things make no difference, rise above them.How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
Just face her and tell her loud and clear (and in front of other people) to stop lying about you and talking behind your back about you. Call her a sneaky back-stabber.
Words mean nothing and are nothing.. Don't let words hurt you and or bother you. It's childish for her to be talking about nonsense stuff... so what if she is let her look dumb by herself don't lower yourself to her level.. she ain't worth it .. nobody is worth the sweat.. so like Mariah says shake it off..release yourself from all that drama.. stay away..from the people that hate and that are a waste of your space..
You can't controll her actions or words in any way. But you can control the way you feel. Let go of what she says and realize it's all so shallow. Petty small things make no difference, rise above them.How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
Just face her and tell her loud and clear (and in front of other people) to stop lying about you and talking behind your back about you. Call her a sneaky back-stabber.
Words mean nothing and are nothing.. Don't let words hurt you and or bother you. It's childish for her to be talking about nonsense stuff... so what if she is let her look dumb by herself don't lower yourself to her level.. she ain't worth it .. nobody is worth the sweat.. so like Mariah says shake it off..release yourself from all that drama.. stay away..from the people that hate and that are a waste of your space..
How can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
we talked it over, and he really decided to end our relationship...he told me we can be friends...i really dunno his main point,can't read his mind...he knows how much i love him but it seems that he's never committed at all..after how many years...am emotionally stressed and still i am at this point in timeHow can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
God, I hate it when people use cliches like the person above. It just adds to the pain. If I hear ';It's called a breakup because it's broken'; one more time, or another lame cliche, I'm going to strangle somebody.How can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
The best thing to do is get realistic and face the fact that your relationship was not what you thought you had. He emotionally never made the commitment that he may have led you to believe was there in order to get you to give into him sexually. My mom always used to say that men gave love to get sex and women give sex to get love. I think that is often true.
A solid relationship takes so much more than sex. Physical attraction,Time, laughter, working together towards a goal, shared joy and trouble and lots of verbal communication are all building blocks that need to be in place for a lasting foundation. Sex is just the glue that helps holds it together.
He has told you that he has ended the relationship and frankly, most men won't do that unless there is already someone on the sidelines waiting for them. You aren't going to be friends, because friends don't treat each other dishonestly and decieve one another. I think he was just comfortable with you and that is probably why he stayed as long as he did.
Try to put your emotions aside and not waste any more time on the why's and why nots of your time together. He has at last been honest enough to set you free and now you are going to have to fly on without him. There is nothing you can do to make something out of what was never really there for him. He said it and now you have to accept it.
well the sound of it he broke up wit you for another girl this happens all the time you should hang with him more but dont be stuck on him just move on its going to be hard but its worth it turst me and the only thing you can do is be his friend unless you dont what to be his friend if you cool with that than do that but other than that if he really loved you at first he will come back to you if it meant to be.
Just flirt with him. Let him love you. Do the things you both do when you`re still in a relationship.
You can't make someone love you. and why would you want to? he should love you because he sees how awesome you are! i know this hurts because I am going through it too. My ex of a few yrs dumped me for a girl (who is like my twin) he met a few times. Threw it all away and I truly loved him anf thought he loved me. Its hard not to wonder what is so wrong with you...but ppl are ppl and we change and things dont always work out.
If he cant apprecaite the love you gave him..move on to somoene who will. One day he may wakeup and realize how amazing you were but by then you could be with a guy who always knew that.
Cut contact...and move on..if he doesnt want all of you...he doesnt deserve any of you.
It's called a breakup because it's broken..let it be
Put your hands on your chest and ask this question to yourself?..'; Is he really worth the pain?.. Getting him back will feel good for both of us?. What if he does the same after you get a baby?.. Is it the fear that you wont get another guy is makin you run behind him?';.. Ask yourself and do watever you want
God, I hate it when people use cliches like the person above. It just adds to the pain. If I hear ';It's called a breakup because it's broken'; one more time, or another lame cliche, I'm going to strangle somebody.How can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
The best thing to do is get realistic and face the fact that your relationship was not what you thought you had. He emotionally never made the commitment that he may have led you to believe was there in order to get you to give into him sexually. My mom always used to say that men gave love to get sex and women give sex to get love. I think that is often true.
A solid relationship takes so much more than sex. Physical attraction,Time, laughter, working together towards a goal, shared joy and trouble and lots of verbal communication are all building blocks that need to be in place for a lasting foundation. Sex is just the glue that helps holds it together.
He has told you that he has ended the relationship and frankly, most men won't do that unless there is already someone on the sidelines waiting for them. You aren't going to be friends, because friends don't treat each other dishonestly and decieve one another. I think he was just comfortable with you and that is probably why he stayed as long as he did.
Try to put your emotions aside and not waste any more time on the why's and why nots of your time together. He has at last been honest enough to set you free and now you are going to have to fly on without him. There is nothing you can do to make something out of what was never really there for him. He said it and now you have to accept it.
well the sound of it he broke up wit you for another girl this happens all the time you should hang with him more but dont be stuck on him just move on its going to be hard but its worth it turst me and the only thing you can do is be his friend unless you dont what to be his friend if you cool with that than do that but other than that if he really loved you at first he will come back to you if it meant to be.
Just flirt with him. Let him love you. Do the things you both do when you`re still in a relationship.
You can't make someone love you. and why would you want to? he should love you because he sees how awesome you are! i know this hurts because I am going through it too. My ex of a few yrs dumped me for a girl (who is like my twin) he met a few times. Threw it all away and I truly loved him anf thought he loved me. Its hard not to wonder what is so wrong with you...but ppl are ppl and we change and things dont always work out.
If he cant apprecaite the love you gave him..move on to somoene who will. One day he may wakeup and realize how amazing you were but by then you could be with a guy who always knew that.
Cut contact...and move on..if he doesnt want all of you...he doesnt deserve any of you.
It's called a breakup because it's broken..let it be
Put your hands on your chest and ask this question to yourself?..'; Is he really worth the pain?.. Getting him back will feel good for both of us?. What if he does the same after you get a baby?.. Is it the fear that you wont get another guy is makin you run behind him?';.. Ask yourself and do watever you want
How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
Me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago. He's 23 and I'm 19. It was a long distance relationship of 5 months, where we mostly kept in contact over the phone and he'd come to see me once a month. We both really liked each other and it was working for a while, but we would constantly get into arguments about trust issues and his lack of effort sometimes.
Anyways, I would break up with him a lot of times when I would get too frustrated over his laid-back approach to our relationship and he would try to win me back and we would make up. This last break up was official this time because he said that he would not try to chase me anymore and that I break up with him too many times for silly reasons.
When I called to talk to him a couple days after, he seemed sweet and not mad at me for the whole incident. But he still said we were just friends now because he cant deal with me always breaking up with him. I asked if he missed me and he said yes and I said I missed him too and that I regret breaking up with him but he said he doesn't think he can do ';it'; anymore and he said ';you have to wait for me to want to be with you again';.
I don't know if he really meant what he said because he was just trying to let me down easy or just stringing me along without any intention of ever getting back together? =/
I tried calling him yesterday but he didn't pick up. And he never returned my call today. Should I give him a week to contact me before I should officially give up and just move on?
I don't want to move on, but if he doesn't want to try it again once more, I have no choice, right?How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
Enough is enough. Life is so short, hon. Nobody is promised tomorrow. Be happy and live your life. If he comes around in the future, that's fine, you can still accept him. But, stop wasting time waiting.How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
You guys broke up. Why should he bother?
Don't make yourself seem like the victim here by saying ';guess I don't have a choice'; because you did...and you chose to 'break up' multiple times.
Umm you had a LDR relationship for 5 months and you ';would break up with him a lot of times';
Just forget it. Obviously you two are not meant to be.
just move on.
you'll end up thinking about him and crying and being frustrated in the process but that's how it is.
sooner or later he will be out of your life forever
I honestly don't blame him for moving on, it was about time. It was way past time for him, and the right thing to do for his well being. You were trying to control him by using emotional black mail with breaking up every time that you didn't get your way. That was a very immature way of handling any relationship. You should have been trying harder to work out your issues, instead of breaking up all the time. I am telling you this so that next time you get into a relationship, you might use more of a mature approach for working out your issues. Yes, move on, you have lost his trust, and most likely he's lost his attraction for you on a deeper emotional level.
Yes, you blew it. Either you grow up and pray he misses you but personally I wouldn't lose sleep over it. Chalk it up to a learning experience. Long distance relationships are hard. I know because I am doing it right now and I see my wife every weekend. I hate being away from her but it's the best for our future. Stay busy next time. The devil plays with idle hands and minds!
A long distance relationship is no relationship. Not to mention you would constantly ';break up'; with him then wait for him to crawl back to you. It sounds like this guy finally grew some balls and brains and found the courage to dump you for good. I'd never put up with that either. Good for him. Move on.
What is with all the young, UNMARRIED, desperate people out here tonight? Were you married to this guy? He owes you NOTHING.
Stop acting so desperately, and stop contacting him. The only thing you are doing, is pushing him further away. He is probably laughing about you right now. He can play you like a puppet because you are sitting around trying to keep contact.
Have some SELF RESPECT AND DIGNITY. Learn to love yourself, by yourself, and for yourself. You can NOT love anyone until you love yourself. And the way you are acting.....is NOT like a young lady of 19 years old. You are not in junior high school. Start acting like it.
People have a life outside of you and your needs. Maybe this guy has a life that does not include you. The world does NOT revolve around you and returning your phone calls. If I were him, I would steer clear of a person who is acting obsessed. Love is NOT obsession. Love is respecting a person's wishes......even if that wish is NOT to be with you. If you truly love this guy and care about him.....respect him and his decision. And respect yourself more than becoming a desperate doormat. You ';train'; a man on how to treat you. And you are training this guy in that he can snap his fingers and you will jump because he knows you are sitting around ';pining'; after him. Stop it.
This behavior scares me......I can only imagine how your behavior is scaring him.hair cut styles debt
Anyways, I would break up with him a lot of times when I would get too frustrated over his laid-back approach to our relationship and he would try to win me back and we would make up. This last break up was official this time because he said that he would not try to chase me anymore and that I break up with him too many times for silly reasons.
When I called to talk to him a couple days after, he seemed sweet and not mad at me for the whole incident. But he still said we were just friends now because he cant deal with me always breaking up with him. I asked if he missed me and he said yes and I said I missed him too and that I regret breaking up with him but he said he doesn't think he can do ';it'; anymore and he said ';you have to wait for me to want to be with you again';.
I don't know if he really meant what he said because he was just trying to let me down easy or just stringing me along without any intention of ever getting back together? =/
I tried calling him yesterday but he didn't pick up. And he never returned my call today. Should I give him a week to contact me before I should officially give up and just move on?
I don't want to move on, but if he doesn't want to try it again once more, I have no choice, right?How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
Enough is enough. Life is so short, hon. Nobody is promised tomorrow. Be happy and live your life. If he comes around in the future, that's fine, you can still accept him. But, stop wasting time waiting.How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
You guys broke up. Why should he bother?
Don't make yourself seem like the victim here by saying ';guess I don't have a choice'; because you did...and you chose to 'break up' multiple times.
Umm you had a LDR relationship for 5 months and you ';would break up with him a lot of times';
Just forget it. Obviously you two are not meant to be.
just move on.
you'll end up thinking about him and crying and being frustrated in the process but that's how it is.
sooner or later he will be out of your life forever
I honestly don't blame him for moving on, it was about time. It was way past time for him, and the right thing to do for his well being. You were trying to control him by using emotional black mail with breaking up every time that you didn't get your way. That was a very immature way of handling any relationship. You should have been trying harder to work out your issues, instead of breaking up all the time. I am telling you this so that next time you get into a relationship, you might use more of a mature approach for working out your issues. Yes, move on, you have lost his trust, and most likely he's lost his attraction for you on a deeper emotional level.
Yes, you blew it. Either you grow up and pray he misses you but personally I wouldn't lose sleep over it. Chalk it up to a learning experience. Long distance relationships are hard. I know because I am doing it right now and I see my wife every weekend. I hate being away from her but it's the best for our future. Stay busy next time. The devil plays with idle hands and minds!
A long distance relationship is no relationship. Not to mention you would constantly ';break up'; with him then wait for him to crawl back to you. It sounds like this guy finally grew some balls and brains and found the courage to dump you for good. I'd never put up with that either. Good for him. Move on.
What is with all the young, UNMARRIED, desperate people out here tonight? Were you married to this guy? He owes you NOTHING.
Stop acting so desperately, and stop contacting him. The only thing you are doing, is pushing him further away. He is probably laughing about you right now. He can play you like a puppet because you are sitting around trying to keep contact.
Have some SELF RESPECT AND DIGNITY. Learn to love yourself, by yourself, and for yourself. You can NOT love anyone until you love yourself. And the way you are acting.....is NOT like a young lady of 19 years old. You are not in junior high school. Start acting like it.
People have a life outside of you and your needs. Maybe this guy has a life that does not include you. The world does NOT revolve around you and returning your phone calls. If I were him, I would steer clear of a person who is acting obsessed. Love is NOT obsession. Love is respecting a person's wishes......even if that wish is NOT to be with you. If you truly love this guy and care about him.....respect him and his decision. And respect yourself more than becoming a desperate doormat. You ';train'; a man on how to treat you. And you are training this guy in that he can snap his fingers and you will jump because he knows you are sitting around ';pining'; after him. Stop it.
This behavior scares me......I can only imagine how your behavior is scaring him.
How do you get over anger and bitterness towards an ex-boyfriend?
We broke up a year ago and kept harassing me to get back together. I didn't because he treated me bad. I felt sorry for him when he told me his dad had cancer so I tried to cheer him up, but now that he's found someone else, he's decided to stop harassing me. In a way, I'm glad cause I get to move on, but a part of me is mad at him. To top it all off, I am being treated for a thyroid disease that gives you terrible mood swings that borderline on depression. How do I let go of the anger and bitterness? I'm a naturally happy person. I want to be happy, but I feel used and manipulated.How do you get over anger and bitterness towards an ex-boyfriend?
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How to be friends with your ex?
after me and my bf broke up we havent really talked.
its been about 1 month and we generally avoid eachother at all costs, like its natural or something.
i dont like it, but we both dont try hard enough. I dont really know how to start trying to regain friendship.
can anyone give me some tips?
Thanks
xxHow to be friends with your ex?
I would probably advise against it because there will be a lot of pitfalls in the friendship.How to be friends with your ex?
The truth is you cant never be friends with your ex, depending on how serious you were with him. Just take some time off, you can send a occasional txt askin how he is...
Its awkward being friends with someone who you went out with..
start normal convos
like heey
hows u ?
how u been ?
anything exciting happen lately ?
lets catch up one daay
juust talk to him like u were talkin to one of ur maates
guuud luuuck
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if you dont know and its hard to rekindle a friendship with an ex then its obvious not time yet. its too soon for you guys to be rekindling anything. just live your life without him right now. you guys broke up for a reason as friends AND partners. maybe sometime in the future a month or year or 3 yrs from now u'll be ready.you guys can be friends but obviously not now. let it go.......
im in the same situation!!!!
personally 4 me, its never a good idea 2 b friends with an ex. they know too much about u and u with them also. but if u really want 2, u can try ';beating around the bush';, like say sumthin like its a nice day out, u got a new shirt, u like his shoes or sumthin like that. itll eventually ease things up a bit and then u guys can talk.
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here's a concept: don't be friends with your ex. what's gonna happen is it's gonna be hard for you to detach, and once you do move on the new person is gonna wonder why the hell you stick talk to your ex. just drop it. exes are in th past.
He's your Ex dude! When he gets a new girlfriend you won't be his friend anymore, she'll see to that...think about it! Will you want your new boyfriend's ex all buddy-buddy with him? I know this is harsh but you might as well just keep things the way they are.
I personally don't see why ex's should talk and be friends. If a girl breaks up with me then I never talk to her again in any form or manner. Now if I broke up with her I still wouldn't talk to her because it would be awkward
If you were together a long time you should know each other pretty well. Get past the awkwardness by letting him know you care about him as a person and you would like to have a genuine relationship as a friend. You should be understanding if he doesn't feel like talking to the girl he wants to be his girlfriend again. My ex and I were friends because we understood one another very well.
ah that sucks!
do you still want to be friends? is it something you really want in your life?
you should ask yourself how far you're willing to go.. and i say this because if you both mutally avoid each other then there's the possibility he doesn't want to be your friend either =/
it's a possibility, but you never know unless you take the intiative to talk to him... if it's kind of akward in person, why don't you try calling him and talking to him... at least you will hear his voice and see how sincere he is about it, while texting or messaging, you don't know their true feelings.
if he doesn't want to be your friend at least you got it off your chest and aren't left to wonder in the unknown.
but he still wants to be your friend, well hooray, right?
well whatever should happen btwn you guys good luck (:
Dont have a friendship with you ex. Just be cordial when you see him out, say hi, how are you? and well i gtg good night and then keep it pushing. Buddy-buddy with ex usually isnt a good thing. They are ex's for a reason.
This is a two way effort. If he's not feeling it, then you can't change a thing.
its been about 1 month and we generally avoid eachother at all costs, like its natural or something.
i dont like it, but we both dont try hard enough. I dont really know how to start trying to regain friendship.
can anyone give me some tips?
Thanks
xxHow to be friends with your ex?
I would probably advise against it because there will be a lot of pitfalls in the friendship.How to be friends with your ex?
The truth is you cant never be friends with your ex, depending on how serious you were with him. Just take some time off, you can send a occasional txt askin how he is...
Its awkward being friends with someone who you went out with..
start normal convos
like heey
hows u ?
how u been ?
anything exciting happen lately ?
lets catch up one daay
juust talk to him like u were talkin to one of ur maates
guuud luuuck
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if you dont know and its hard to rekindle a friendship with an ex then its obvious not time yet. its too soon for you guys to be rekindling anything. just live your life without him right now. you guys broke up for a reason as friends AND partners. maybe sometime in the future a month or year or 3 yrs from now u'll be ready.you guys can be friends but obviously not now. let it go.......
im in the same situation!!!!
personally 4 me, its never a good idea 2 b friends with an ex. they know too much about u and u with them also. but if u really want 2, u can try ';beating around the bush';, like say sumthin like its a nice day out, u got a new shirt, u like his shoes or sumthin like that. itll eventually ease things up a bit and then u guys can talk.
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here's a concept: don't be friends with your ex. what's gonna happen is it's gonna be hard for you to detach, and once you do move on the new person is gonna wonder why the hell you stick talk to your ex. just drop it. exes are in th past.
He's your Ex dude! When he gets a new girlfriend you won't be his friend anymore, she'll see to that...think about it! Will you want your new boyfriend's ex all buddy-buddy with him? I know this is harsh but you might as well just keep things the way they are.
I personally don't see why ex's should talk and be friends. If a girl breaks up with me then I never talk to her again in any form or manner. Now if I broke up with her I still wouldn't talk to her because it would be awkward
If you were together a long time you should know each other pretty well. Get past the awkwardness by letting him know you care about him as a person and you would like to have a genuine relationship as a friend. You should be understanding if he doesn't feel like talking to the girl he wants to be his girlfriend again. My ex and I were friends because we understood one another very well.
ah that sucks!
do you still want to be friends? is it something you really want in your life?
you should ask yourself how far you're willing to go.. and i say this because if you both mutally avoid each other then there's the possibility he doesn't want to be your friend either =/
it's a possibility, but you never know unless you take the intiative to talk to him... if it's kind of akward in person, why don't you try calling him and talking to him... at least you will hear his voice and see how sincere he is about it, while texting or messaging, you don't know their true feelings.
if he doesn't want to be your friend at least you got it off your chest and aren't left to wonder in the unknown.
but he still wants to be your friend, well hooray, right?
well whatever should happen btwn you guys good luck (:
Dont have a friendship with you ex. Just be cordial when you see him out, say hi, how are you? and well i gtg good night and then keep it pushing. Buddy-buddy with ex usually isnt a good thing. They are ex's for a reason.
This is a two way effort. If he's not feeling it, then you can't change a thing.
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