How can I get my soon to be ex-wife deported?How can I get someone deported?
from?How can I get someone deported?
sure if you want to live with the fact that after you did it your going to be entertaining the evil thought of what you done
please don't get her deported. It is a terrible thing to mess up someone's life so badly
To Europe?
Ur stupid u just want to deport her cuz ur hurt .. Get a life n don't even worry about her pssss
lol ya your being an *** dude. Move on with your life instead of being a prick about the fact she's leaving you. Have a little class if that's possible for you.
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let me bang her a few times , then ill be happy to give her a ride to were ever she is from
You don't, forget about it and move on. There's no need to be a little brat about it
You cannot .....
and that affidavit of support you filed is hanging over your head ..
it does not end with divorce
If she get a smart lawyer .. you are cooked..so be very nice
Friday, August 20, 2010
Can someone help me get my ex boyfriend back?
So my ex and I broke up a little while ago and I went about getting him back in completely the wrong way. I broke the cardinal rule and continued talking to him all the time and telling how much he hurt me, I missed him, and how much I think we belong together. Obviously this didn't work because he basically saw that he still had me without needing to actually be with me. How do I turn this around and make him come back? Is it too far gone?Can someone help me get my ex boyfriend back?
No-one can get your boyfriend to go back to you. It is up to him and him alone. But by the sounds of it, he has moved on from you, so now you must do the same and get on with your life without him at least. You have got to keep your mind active so that way, you are not thinking of him all the time. Do some travelling and meet new people, and do things you have always wanted to do, but put off for reasons that you only know. It is now time to start afresh, and live life to the full. Who knows, you may even meet a nice guy a long the way. Good luck.
No-one can get your boyfriend to go back to you. It is up to him and him alone. But by the sounds of it, he has moved on from you, so now you must do the same and get on with your life without him at least. You have got to keep your mind active so that way, you are not thinking of him all the time. Do some travelling and meet new people, and do things you have always wanted to do, but put off for reasons that you only know. It is now time to start afresh, and live life to the full. Who knows, you may even meet a nice guy a long the way. Good luck.
How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
My cousin and i recently had a falling out. She was lying about something that she did and blamed it on me anyway, she has started talking about me, trying to take 2 of her ex best friends boyfriends and i want her to stop ive tried to talk to her in private lied her butt of about it, one of her friends lets call her Erin got in her face about everything, her other ex friend is waiting for her to piss her off one more time and im sick of her talking about me and im tired of it any ideas?How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
You can't controll her actions or words in any way. But you can control the way you feel. Let go of what she says and realize it's all so shallow. Petty small things make no difference, rise above them.How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
Just face her and tell her loud and clear (and in front of other people) to stop lying about you and talking behind your back about you. Call her a sneaky back-stabber.
Words mean nothing and are nothing.. Don't let words hurt you and or bother you. It's childish for her to be talking about nonsense stuff... so what if she is let her look dumb by herself don't lower yourself to her level.. she ain't worth it .. nobody is worth the sweat.. so like Mariah says shake it off..release yourself from all that drama.. stay away..from the people that hate and that are a waste of your space..
You can't controll her actions or words in any way. But you can control the way you feel. Let go of what she says and realize it's all so shallow. Petty small things make no difference, rise above them.How to get this girl to stop talking about me?
Just face her and tell her loud and clear (and in front of other people) to stop lying about you and talking behind your back about you. Call her a sneaky back-stabber.
Words mean nothing and are nothing.. Don't let words hurt you and or bother you. It's childish for her to be talking about nonsense stuff... so what if she is let her look dumb by herself don't lower yourself to her level.. she ain't worth it .. nobody is worth the sweat.. so like Mariah says shake it off..release yourself from all that drama.. stay away..from the people that hate and that are a waste of your space..
How can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
we talked it over, and he really decided to end our relationship...he told me we can be friends...i really dunno his main point,can't read his mind...he knows how much i love him but it seems that he's never committed at all..after how many years...am emotionally stressed and still i am at this point in timeHow can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
God, I hate it when people use cliches like the person above. It just adds to the pain. If I hear ';It's called a breakup because it's broken'; one more time, or another lame cliche, I'm going to strangle somebody.How can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
The best thing to do is get realistic and face the fact that your relationship was not what you thought you had. He emotionally never made the commitment that he may have led you to believe was there in order to get you to give into him sexually. My mom always used to say that men gave love to get sex and women give sex to get love. I think that is often true.
A solid relationship takes so much more than sex. Physical attraction,Time, laughter, working together towards a goal, shared joy and trouble and lots of verbal communication are all building blocks that need to be in place for a lasting foundation. Sex is just the glue that helps holds it together.
He has told you that he has ended the relationship and frankly, most men won't do that unless there is already someone on the sidelines waiting for them. You aren't going to be friends, because friends don't treat each other dishonestly and decieve one another. I think he was just comfortable with you and that is probably why he stayed as long as he did.
Try to put your emotions aside and not waste any more time on the why's and why nots of your time together. He has at last been honest enough to set you free and now you are going to have to fly on without him. There is nothing you can do to make something out of what was never really there for him. He said it and now you have to accept it.
well the sound of it he broke up wit you for another girl this happens all the time you should hang with him more but dont be stuck on him just move on its going to be hard but its worth it turst me and the only thing you can do is be his friend unless you dont what to be his friend if you cool with that than do that but other than that if he really loved you at first he will come back to you if it meant to be.
Just flirt with him. Let him love you. Do the things you both do when you`re still in a relationship.
You can't make someone love you. and why would you want to? he should love you because he sees how awesome you are! i know this hurts because I am going through it too. My ex of a few yrs dumped me for a girl (who is like my twin) he met a few times. Threw it all away and I truly loved him anf thought he loved me. Its hard not to wonder what is so wrong with you...but ppl are ppl and we change and things dont always work out.
If he cant apprecaite the love you gave him..move on to somoene who will. One day he may wakeup and realize how amazing you were but by then you could be with a guy who always knew that.
Cut contact...and move on..if he doesnt want all of you...he doesnt deserve any of you.
It's called a breakup because it's broken..let it be
Put your hands on your chest and ask this question to yourself?..'; Is he really worth the pain?.. Getting him back will feel good for both of us?. What if he does the same after you get a baby?.. Is it the fear that you wont get another guy is makin you run behind him?';.. Ask yourself and do watever you want
God, I hate it when people use cliches like the person above. It just adds to the pain. If I hear ';It's called a breakup because it's broken'; one more time, or another lame cliche, I'm going to strangle somebody.How can i make my ex love me again? he dumped me with his unfair reasons...what is the best thing to do?
The best thing to do is get realistic and face the fact that your relationship was not what you thought you had. He emotionally never made the commitment that he may have led you to believe was there in order to get you to give into him sexually. My mom always used to say that men gave love to get sex and women give sex to get love. I think that is often true.
A solid relationship takes so much more than sex. Physical attraction,Time, laughter, working together towards a goal, shared joy and trouble and lots of verbal communication are all building blocks that need to be in place for a lasting foundation. Sex is just the glue that helps holds it together.
He has told you that he has ended the relationship and frankly, most men won't do that unless there is already someone on the sidelines waiting for them. You aren't going to be friends, because friends don't treat each other dishonestly and decieve one another. I think he was just comfortable with you and that is probably why he stayed as long as he did.
Try to put your emotions aside and not waste any more time on the why's and why nots of your time together. He has at last been honest enough to set you free and now you are going to have to fly on without him. There is nothing you can do to make something out of what was never really there for him. He said it and now you have to accept it.
well the sound of it he broke up wit you for another girl this happens all the time you should hang with him more but dont be stuck on him just move on its going to be hard but its worth it turst me and the only thing you can do is be his friend unless you dont what to be his friend if you cool with that than do that but other than that if he really loved you at first he will come back to you if it meant to be.
Just flirt with him. Let him love you. Do the things you both do when you`re still in a relationship.
You can't make someone love you. and why would you want to? he should love you because he sees how awesome you are! i know this hurts because I am going through it too. My ex of a few yrs dumped me for a girl (who is like my twin) he met a few times. Threw it all away and I truly loved him anf thought he loved me. Its hard not to wonder what is so wrong with you...but ppl are ppl and we change and things dont always work out.
If he cant apprecaite the love you gave him..move on to somoene who will. One day he may wakeup and realize how amazing you were but by then you could be with a guy who always knew that.
Cut contact...and move on..if he doesnt want all of you...he doesnt deserve any of you.
It's called a breakup because it's broken..let it be
Put your hands on your chest and ask this question to yourself?..'; Is he really worth the pain?.. Getting him back will feel good for both of us?. What if he does the same after you get a baby?.. Is it the fear that you wont get another guy is makin you run behind him?';.. Ask yourself and do watever you want
How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
Me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago. He's 23 and I'm 19. It was a long distance relationship of 5 months, where we mostly kept in contact over the phone and he'd come to see me once a month. We both really liked each other and it was working for a while, but we would constantly get into arguments about trust issues and his lack of effort sometimes.
Anyways, I would break up with him a lot of times when I would get too frustrated over his laid-back approach to our relationship and he would try to win me back and we would make up. This last break up was official this time because he said that he would not try to chase me anymore and that I break up with him too many times for silly reasons.
When I called to talk to him a couple days after, he seemed sweet and not mad at me for the whole incident. But he still said we were just friends now because he cant deal with me always breaking up with him. I asked if he missed me and he said yes and I said I missed him too and that I regret breaking up with him but he said he doesn't think he can do ';it'; anymore and he said ';you have to wait for me to want to be with you again';.
I don't know if he really meant what he said because he was just trying to let me down easy or just stringing me along without any intention of ever getting back together? =/
I tried calling him yesterday but he didn't pick up. And he never returned my call today. Should I give him a week to contact me before I should officially give up and just move on?
I don't want to move on, but if he doesn't want to try it again once more, I have no choice, right?How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
Enough is enough. Life is so short, hon. Nobody is promised tomorrow. Be happy and live your life. If he comes around in the future, that's fine, you can still accept him. But, stop wasting time waiting.How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
You guys broke up. Why should he bother?
Don't make yourself seem like the victim here by saying ';guess I don't have a choice'; because you did...and you chose to 'break up' multiple times.
Umm you had a LDR relationship for 5 months and you ';would break up with him a lot of times';
Just forget it. Obviously you two are not meant to be.
just move on.
you'll end up thinking about him and crying and being frustrated in the process but that's how it is.
sooner or later he will be out of your life forever
I honestly don't blame him for moving on, it was about time. It was way past time for him, and the right thing to do for his well being. You were trying to control him by using emotional black mail with breaking up every time that you didn't get your way. That was a very immature way of handling any relationship. You should have been trying harder to work out your issues, instead of breaking up all the time. I am telling you this so that next time you get into a relationship, you might use more of a mature approach for working out your issues. Yes, move on, you have lost his trust, and most likely he's lost his attraction for you on a deeper emotional level.
Yes, you blew it. Either you grow up and pray he misses you but personally I wouldn't lose sleep over it. Chalk it up to a learning experience. Long distance relationships are hard. I know because I am doing it right now and I see my wife every weekend. I hate being away from her but it's the best for our future. Stay busy next time. The devil plays with idle hands and minds!
A long distance relationship is no relationship. Not to mention you would constantly ';break up'; with him then wait for him to crawl back to you. It sounds like this guy finally grew some balls and brains and found the courage to dump you for good. I'd never put up with that either. Good for him. Move on.
What is with all the young, UNMARRIED, desperate people out here tonight? Were you married to this guy? He owes you NOTHING.
Stop acting so desperately, and stop contacting him. The only thing you are doing, is pushing him further away. He is probably laughing about you right now. He can play you like a puppet because you are sitting around trying to keep contact.
Have some SELF RESPECT AND DIGNITY. Learn to love yourself, by yourself, and for yourself. You can NOT love anyone until you love yourself. And the way you are acting.....is NOT like a young lady of 19 years old. You are not in junior high school. Start acting like it.
People have a life outside of you and your needs. Maybe this guy has a life that does not include you. The world does NOT revolve around you and returning your phone calls. If I were him, I would steer clear of a person who is acting obsessed. Love is NOT obsession. Love is respecting a person's wishes......even if that wish is NOT to be with you. If you truly love this guy and care about him.....respect him and his decision. And respect yourself more than becoming a desperate doormat. You ';train'; a man on how to treat you. And you are training this guy in that he can snap his fingers and you will jump because he knows you are sitting around ';pining'; after him. Stop it.
This behavior scares me......I can only imagine how your behavior is scaring him.hair cut styles debt
Anyways, I would break up with him a lot of times when I would get too frustrated over his laid-back approach to our relationship and he would try to win me back and we would make up. This last break up was official this time because he said that he would not try to chase me anymore and that I break up with him too many times for silly reasons.
When I called to talk to him a couple days after, he seemed sweet and not mad at me for the whole incident. But he still said we were just friends now because he cant deal with me always breaking up with him. I asked if he missed me and he said yes and I said I missed him too and that I regret breaking up with him but he said he doesn't think he can do ';it'; anymore and he said ';you have to wait for me to want to be with you again';.
I don't know if he really meant what he said because he was just trying to let me down easy or just stringing me along without any intention of ever getting back together? =/
I tried calling him yesterday but he didn't pick up. And he never returned my call today. Should I give him a week to contact me before I should officially give up and just move on?
I don't want to move on, but if he doesn't want to try it again once more, I have no choice, right?How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
Enough is enough. Life is so short, hon. Nobody is promised tomorrow. Be happy and live your life. If he comes around in the future, that's fine, you can still accept him. But, stop wasting time waiting.How long should I wait for my ex to call me before I should just give up for good?
You guys broke up. Why should he bother?
Don't make yourself seem like the victim here by saying ';guess I don't have a choice'; because you did...and you chose to 'break up' multiple times.
Umm you had a LDR relationship for 5 months and you ';would break up with him a lot of times';
Just forget it. Obviously you two are not meant to be.
just move on.
you'll end up thinking about him and crying and being frustrated in the process but that's how it is.
sooner or later he will be out of your life forever
I honestly don't blame him for moving on, it was about time. It was way past time for him, and the right thing to do for his well being. You were trying to control him by using emotional black mail with breaking up every time that you didn't get your way. That was a very immature way of handling any relationship. You should have been trying harder to work out your issues, instead of breaking up all the time. I am telling you this so that next time you get into a relationship, you might use more of a mature approach for working out your issues. Yes, move on, you have lost his trust, and most likely he's lost his attraction for you on a deeper emotional level.
Yes, you blew it. Either you grow up and pray he misses you but personally I wouldn't lose sleep over it. Chalk it up to a learning experience. Long distance relationships are hard. I know because I am doing it right now and I see my wife every weekend. I hate being away from her but it's the best for our future. Stay busy next time. The devil plays with idle hands and minds!
A long distance relationship is no relationship. Not to mention you would constantly ';break up'; with him then wait for him to crawl back to you. It sounds like this guy finally grew some balls and brains and found the courage to dump you for good. I'd never put up with that either. Good for him. Move on.
What is with all the young, UNMARRIED, desperate people out here tonight? Were you married to this guy? He owes you NOTHING.
Stop acting so desperately, and stop contacting him. The only thing you are doing, is pushing him further away. He is probably laughing about you right now. He can play you like a puppet because you are sitting around trying to keep contact.
Have some SELF RESPECT AND DIGNITY. Learn to love yourself, by yourself, and for yourself. You can NOT love anyone until you love yourself. And the way you are acting.....is NOT like a young lady of 19 years old. You are not in junior high school. Start acting like it.
People have a life outside of you and your needs. Maybe this guy has a life that does not include you. The world does NOT revolve around you and returning your phone calls. If I were him, I would steer clear of a person who is acting obsessed. Love is NOT obsession. Love is respecting a person's wishes......even if that wish is NOT to be with you. If you truly love this guy and care about him.....respect him and his decision. And respect yourself more than becoming a desperate doormat. You ';train'; a man on how to treat you. And you are training this guy in that he can snap his fingers and you will jump because he knows you are sitting around ';pining'; after him. Stop it.
This behavior scares me......I can only imagine how your behavior is scaring him.
How do you get over anger and bitterness towards an ex-boyfriend?
We broke up a year ago and kept harassing me to get back together. I didn't because he treated me bad. I felt sorry for him when he told me his dad had cancer so I tried to cheer him up, but now that he's found someone else, he's decided to stop harassing me. In a way, I'm glad cause I get to move on, but a part of me is mad at him. To top it all off, I am being treated for a thyroid disease that gives you terrible mood swings that borderline on depression. How do I let go of the anger and bitterness? I'm a naturally happy person. I want to be happy, but I feel used and manipulated.How do you get over anger and bitterness towards an ex-boyfriend?
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How to be friends with your ex?
after me and my bf broke up we havent really talked.
its been about 1 month and we generally avoid eachother at all costs, like its natural or something.
i dont like it, but we both dont try hard enough. I dont really know how to start trying to regain friendship.
can anyone give me some tips?
Thanks
xxHow to be friends with your ex?
I would probably advise against it because there will be a lot of pitfalls in the friendship.How to be friends with your ex?
The truth is you cant never be friends with your ex, depending on how serious you were with him. Just take some time off, you can send a occasional txt askin how he is...
Its awkward being friends with someone who you went out with..
start normal convos
like heey
hows u ?
how u been ?
anything exciting happen lately ?
lets catch up one daay
juust talk to him like u were talkin to one of ur maates
guuud luuuck
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if you dont know and its hard to rekindle a friendship with an ex then its obvious not time yet. its too soon for you guys to be rekindling anything. just live your life without him right now. you guys broke up for a reason as friends AND partners. maybe sometime in the future a month or year or 3 yrs from now u'll be ready.you guys can be friends but obviously not now. let it go.......
im in the same situation!!!!
personally 4 me, its never a good idea 2 b friends with an ex. they know too much about u and u with them also. but if u really want 2, u can try ';beating around the bush';, like say sumthin like its a nice day out, u got a new shirt, u like his shoes or sumthin like that. itll eventually ease things up a bit and then u guys can talk.
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here's a concept: don't be friends with your ex. what's gonna happen is it's gonna be hard for you to detach, and once you do move on the new person is gonna wonder why the hell you stick talk to your ex. just drop it. exes are in th past.
He's your Ex dude! When he gets a new girlfriend you won't be his friend anymore, she'll see to that...think about it! Will you want your new boyfriend's ex all buddy-buddy with him? I know this is harsh but you might as well just keep things the way they are.
I personally don't see why ex's should talk and be friends. If a girl breaks up with me then I never talk to her again in any form or manner. Now if I broke up with her I still wouldn't talk to her because it would be awkward
If you were together a long time you should know each other pretty well. Get past the awkwardness by letting him know you care about him as a person and you would like to have a genuine relationship as a friend. You should be understanding if he doesn't feel like talking to the girl he wants to be his girlfriend again. My ex and I were friends because we understood one another very well.
ah that sucks!
do you still want to be friends? is it something you really want in your life?
you should ask yourself how far you're willing to go.. and i say this because if you both mutally avoid each other then there's the possibility he doesn't want to be your friend either =/
it's a possibility, but you never know unless you take the intiative to talk to him... if it's kind of akward in person, why don't you try calling him and talking to him... at least you will hear his voice and see how sincere he is about it, while texting or messaging, you don't know their true feelings.
if he doesn't want to be your friend at least you got it off your chest and aren't left to wonder in the unknown.
but he still wants to be your friend, well hooray, right?
well whatever should happen btwn you guys good luck (:
Dont have a friendship with you ex. Just be cordial when you see him out, say hi, how are you? and well i gtg good night and then keep it pushing. Buddy-buddy with ex usually isnt a good thing. They are ex's for a reason.
This is a two way effort. If he's not feeling it, then you can't change a thing.
its been about 1 month and we generally avoid eachother at all costs, like its natural or something.
i dont like it, but we both dont try hard enough. I dont really know how to start trying to regain friendship.
can anyone give me some tips?
Thanks
xxHow to be friends with your ex?
I would probably advise against it because there will be a lot of pitfalls in the friendship.How to be friends with your ex?
The truth is you cant never be friends with your ex, depending on how serious you were with him. Just take some time off, you can send a occasional txt askin how he is...
Its awkward being friends with someone who you went out with..
start normal convos
like heey
hows u ?
how u been ?
anything exciting happen lately ?
lets catch up one daay
juust talk to him like u were talkin to one of ur maates
guuud luuuck
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if you dont know and its hard to rekindle a friendship with an ex then its obvious not time yet. its too soon for you guys to be rekindling anything. just live your life without him right now. you guys broke up for a reason as friends AND partners. maybe sometime in the future a month or year or 3 yrs from now u'll be ready.you guys can be friends but obviously not now. let it go.......
im in the same situation!!!!
personally 4 me, its never a good idea 2 b friends with an ex. they know too much about u and u with them also. but if u really want 2, u can try ';beating around the bush';, like say sumthin like its a nice day out, u got a new shirt, u like his shoes or sumthin like that. itll eventually ease things up a bit and then u guys can talk.
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here's a concept: don't be friends with your ex. what's gonna happen is it's gonna be hard for you to detach, and once you do move on the new person is gonna wonder why the hell you stick talk to your ex. just drop it. exes are in th past.
He's your Ex dude! When he gets a new girlfriend you won't be his friend anymore, she'll see to that...think about it! Will you want your new boyfriend's ex all buddy-buddy with him? I know this is harsh but you might as well just keep things the way they are.
I personally don't see why ex's should talk and be friends. If a girl breaks up with me then I never talk to her again in any form or manner. Now if I broke up with her I still wouldn't talk to her because it would be awkward
If you were together a long time you should know each other pretty well. Get past the awkwardness by letting him know you care about him as a person and you would like to have a genuine relationship as a friend. You should be understanding if he doesn't feel like talking to the girl he wants to be his girlfriend again. My ex and I were friends because we understood one another very well.
ah that sucks!
do you still want to be friends? is it something you really want in your life?
you should ask yourself how far you're willing to go.. and i say this because if you both mutally avoid each other then there's the possibility he doesn't want to be your friend either =/
it's a possibility, but you never know unless you take the intiative to talk to him... if it's kind of akward in person, why don't you try calling him and talking to him... at least you will hear his voice and see how sincere he is about it, while texting or messaging, you don't know their true feelings.
if he doesn't want to be your friend at least you got it off your chest and aren't left to wonder in the unknown.
but he still wants to be your friend, well hooray, right?
well whatever should happen btwn you guys good luck (:
Dont have a friendship with you ex. Just be cordial when you see him out, say hi, how are you? and well i gtg good night and then keep it pushing. Buddy-buddy with ex usually isnt a good thing. They are ex's for a reason.
This is a two way effort. If he's not feeling it, then you can't change a thing.
How to make a complete stranger notice you?
Well i've met him once, through my best friends ex boyfriend... so he is my best friends ex boyfriends friend haha i know.
But he keeps staring at me, smirking at me etc
and i want to know how can i get to know him, i don't want to just jump on him and introduce myself i want to make it subtle. But how do i get him to notice me? how can i stand out from the rest or w.e, i think he is a year older then me though, im 17 and he is either 18/19 not sure.How to make a complete stranger notice you?
Wave and say how are you.How to make a complete stranger notice you?
You can try showing cleavage but doing the subtle thing wont always do the trick. In the same way girls would want a guy to just come up to them, guys want that too.
When you are around him and he is looking at you, smile, wave, say hi, give him a flirty look. Give him subtle flirty body language that hints to him that you like him.
But he keeps staring at me, smirking at me etc
and i want to know how can i get to know him, i don't want to just jump on him and introduce myself i want to make it subtle. But how do i get him to notice me? how can i stand out from the rest or w.e, i think he is a year older then me though, im 17 and he is either 18/19 not sure.How to make a complete stranger notice you?
Wave and say how are you.How to make a complete stranger notice you?
You can try showing cleavage but doing the subtle thing wont always do the trick. In the same way girls would want a guy to just come up to them, guys want that too.
When you are around him and he is looking at you, smile, wave, say hi, give him a flirty look. Give him subtle flirty body language that hints to him that you like him.
Is dating my friends ex completely wrong of me in this situation?
My friend and her ex broke up about 3 years ago. She has been with her current boyfriend for a little over 2 years and they have a 1 year old son together. They bought a house together and everything, so they are practically married. Her ex and I have been talking for a few months now and are wanting to take things to a more serious level, but I don't know how to tell her about this because I don't know if she will completely disown me as a friend, or if she will be okay with it. What should I do?Is dating my friends ex completely wrong of me in this situation?
Best and for courtesy reason, you should inform the ex., and ask for blessing.
This is for better relationship with all, and not facing any grudges nor problems in future.Is dating my friends ex completely wrong of me in this situation?
Everyone is different. But I can say if one of my friends went for an ex of mine, I wouldn't like it at all. The only way you'll 100% know is if you were to ask her. It would probably be a bit awkward.
Well she's obviously moved on and even if she still misses him, it's been a long time. Talk to her first though, but it'd be fine if it were me.
They've been broken up for 3 years and she's practically married to someone else. How is it any of her business who her ex dates?
she probably won't be ok with it. if you're ready to risk your friendship, then go for it. if not, then just stay away from the guy.
Best and for courtesy reason, you should inform the ex., and ask for blessing.
This is for better relationship with all, and not facing any grudges nor problems in future.Is dating my friends ex completely wrong of me in this situation?
Everyone is different. But I can say if one of my friends went for an ex of mine, I wouldn't like it at all. The only way you'll 100% know is if you were to ask her. It would probably be a bit awkward.
Well she's obviously moved on and even if she still misses him, it's been a long time. Talk to her first though, but it'd be fine if it were me.
They've been broken up for 3 years and she's practically married to someone else. How is it any of her business who her ex dates?
she probably won't be ok with it. if you're ready to risk your friendship, then go for it. if not, then just stay away from the guy.
Should I call my ex of 1 wk. or wait for him to contact me?
My fiance broke it off with me 1 wk. ago but, continued to call me every night for several days. Everytime he called he spoke to me about what he had done that day, etc. as if nothing was going on with us- he also, called me hun %26amp; babe. He always ended his calls by saying he would call me the next night. On Wednesday he did not call me like he said he would but, then called me the next morning from work to apologize for not calling the night before. We had a pleasant conversation %26amp; he said he needed to get back to work %26amp; said once again that he would call me that evening. That was 3 days ago %26amp; I have not heard a word. Should I call him to see if everything is alright or wait %26amp; see what he does. When he split up with me he did tell me he still loved me %26amp; that he wasn't saying things were over for good but, he needed time to take care of other things in his life %26amp; there was no time for me right now. I'm pretty sure this all has nothing to do with wanting to see someone else but, I could be fooling myself. I just don't believe that he would of been calling me %26amp; apologizing for not calling when he said he would if there was someone else. I would appreciate hearing what anyone thinks I should do for now- I don't want to call %26amp; risk possibly pushing him further away nor do I want to be made a fool of if he is checking someone else out. Just 2 days before our break he was buying me flowers %26amp; telling me how much he loved me- something just doesn't add up. Please help!Should I call my ex of 1 wk. or wait for him to contact me?
Stop keeping yourself on a string. He broke it off with you. Don't be so accessible. Don't call him. If you really want him to come back to you, you cannot be so available. Remember men are hunters....Should I call my ex of 1 wk. or wait for him to contact me?
I think he is very confused. Or you are...not sure. This is confusning.
OK, first off, if you are engaged or even dating, you don't break up with someone to work on some personal stuff. You tell the person hey, I need to work on some stuff and so I'll call you in a couple of days...and since you are his fiance you might know what that is because at this point, you know what each other is doing in life. But then for him to keep calling you...well, it's obvious he still cares and he's sending you flowers. He sounds like a good guy.
Honestly, I am glad I'm not you because I would be stumped! HA! Seriously. I don't get it.
I think you guys need to talk!!! I mean you can't wait around for weeks to see what someone else is going to do.
Mary I am not one that plays around, I don't know how you are. But I would lay the law down and get the bottom of this.
Tell him are we on or are we off? Which is it? I think something is going on and that is why he is got you at arms length but you deserve to know what it is.
If he again puts you off on what it is - I say cut it off for now. maybe if you leave him alone and not be there for him on a daily basis he will open up from being lonely and missing you.
Good luck
mmm.. you're right. Something dos'nt add up however you have to remember you are dealing with a 'martian' here :) Hopefully there is no other person involved which is unsettling him or making him feel like he is betraying you so is pulling away instead. Keep an eye out for this possibility.
As your Fiance.. I suspect he might be getting what we call 'cold feet'. Maybe things are moving too fast for him and he just needs some time and space to gain some clarity on the whole relationship. If so.. i think this is a good thing because marriage is a huge committment which both parties need to be confident and comfortable about entering. For you.. i would handle this without fear of losing him but by supporting his need for space. The power of love wins in the end. It just does and by stepping back but being supportive is an act of love in itself. Trust that whatever decision he makes is best for you to know sooner rather than later :)
Stop keeping yourself on a string. He broke it off with you. Don't be so accessible. Don't call him. If you really want him to come back to you, you cannot be so available. Remember men are hunters....Should I call my ex of 1 wk. or wait for him to contact me?
I think he is very confused. Or you are...not sure. This is confusning.
OK, first off, if you are engaged or even dating, you don't break up with someone to work on some personal stuff. You tell the person hey, I need to work on some stuff and so I'll call you in a couple of days...and since you are his fiance you might know what that is because at this point, you know what each other is doing in life. But then for him to keep calling you...well, it's obvious he still cares and he's sending you flowers. He sounds like a good guy.
Honestly, I am glad I'm not you because I would be stumped! HA! Seriously. I don't get it.
I think you guys need to talk!!! I mean you can't wait around for weeks to see what someone else is going to do.
Mary I am not one that plays around, I don't know how you are. But I would lay the law down and get the bottom of this.
Tell him are we on or are we off? Which is it? I think something is going on and that is why he is got you at arms length but you deserve to know what it is.
If he again puts you off on what it is - I say cut it off for now. maybe if you leave him alone and not be there for him on a daily basis he will open up from being lonely and missing you.
Good luck
mmm.. you're right. Something dos'nt add up however you have to remember you are dealing with a 'martian' here :) Hopefully there is no other person involved which is unsettling him or making him feel like he is betraying you so is pulling away instead. Keep an eye out for this possibility.
As your Fiance.. I suspect he might be getting what we call 'cold feet'. Maybe things are moving too fast for him and he just needs some time and space to gain some clarity on the whole relationship. If so.. i think this is a good thing because marriage is a huge committment which both parties need to be confident and comfortable about entering. For you.. i would handle this without fear of losing him but by supporting his need for space. The power of love wins in the end. It just does and by stepping back but being supportive is an act of love in itself. Trust that whatever decision he makes is best for you to know sooner rather than later :)
How to get your ex boyfriend to stop paying attention to your friends?
I really really like my ex boyfriend. But the problem is he always pays attention my other friends who are really pretty and charming. They're really girly and i miss him so much. There's also this thing on his Facebook profile that says his ex is annoying. I don't know if he was talking about me or his other ex he hates. How do i get him back? What about playing hard to get? What do i do?? Add lots of details and stories about you and your ex!How to get your ex boyfriend to stop paying attention to your friends?
.Firstly why is he your ex.If he dumped you.He doesn't want you back.So forget it and move on.Actually he seems like a player to meHow to get your ex boyfriend to stop paying attention to your friends?
First of all, why do you want your ex back?
Think about it…
Think about it long and hard, because here’s the deal…it IS possible to get your ex back.
But do YOU really want to get back with YOUR ex?
Try this... Grab a pen and paper and finish this sentence…
My ideal partner MUST…
This could potentially save you from a lifetime of heartache. Finish the sentence ten different times by listing the TOP 10 THINGS you absolutely MUST have in your ideal partner.
Here are some examples:
* My ideal partner MUST love and accept me for who I am.
* My ideal partner MUST have a good sense of humor.
* My ideal partner MUST love animals, and not eat meat.
Remember, these things are an ABSOLUTE MUST for you, so try not to be too restricted with the things you list.
Now for the flip side…
Try writing out a list of the TOP 10 THINGS you would absolutely HATE in a partner. Finish this sentence…
My partner from hell would…
For instance:
* My partner from hell would be a smoker.
* My partner from hell would be verbally, physically, or emotionally abusive.
* My partner from hell would not be trustworthy.
Now ask yourself how your ex compares to these lists. Do they have more of the “ideal” qualities or more of the “hellish” qualities? Naturally, no one is perfect, but far too many people set the bar too low in picking a partner. Many people “settle”, and end up with a rather “hellish” relationship.
So, do you want to get back with your ex for the right reasons? If your ex shows more of the negative qualities, then it is a safe bet you’re wanting to get back together for the WRONG reasons, whatever those reasons may be. Before you take any action, take your time and seriously consider if this is something you still want to pursue.hair cut styles debt
.Firstly why is he your ex.If he dumped you.He doesn't want you back.So forget it and move on.Actually he seems like a player to meHow to get your ex boyfriend to stop paying attention to your friends?
First of all, why do you want your ex back?
Think about it…
Think about it long and hard, because here’s the deal…it IS possible to get your ex back.
But do YOU really want to get back with YOUR ex?
Try this... Grab a pen and paper and finish this sentence…
My ideal partner MUST…
This could potentially save you from a lifetime of heartache. Finish the sentence ten different times by listing the TOP 10 THINGS you absolutely MUST have in your ideal partner.
Here are some examples:
* My ideal partner MUST love and accept me for who I am.
* My ideal partner MUST have a good sense of humor.
* My ideal partner MUST love animals, and not eat meat.
Remember, these things are an ABSOLUTE MUST for you, so try not to be too restricted with the things you list.
Now for the flip side…
Try writing out a list of the TOP 10 THINGS you would absolutely HATE in a partner. Finish this sentence…
My partner from hell would…
For instance:
* My partner from hell would be a smoker.
* My partner from hell would be verbally, physically, or emotionally abusive.
* My partner from hell would not be trustworthy.
Now ask yourself how your ex compares to these lists. Do they have more of the “ideal” qualities or more of the “hellish” qualities? Naturally, no one is perfect, but far too many people set the bar too low in picking a partner. Many people “settle”, and end up with a rather “hellish” relationship.
So, do you want to get back with your ex for the right reasons? If your ex shows more of the negative qualities, then it is a safe bet you’re wanting to get back together for the WRONG reasons, whatever those reasons may be. Before you take any action, take your time and seriously consider if this is something you still want to pursue.
How to make a big ring fit a small finger?
I recently found a BEAUTIFUL ring an ex gave me forever ago and realized why i never worn it because my fingers are so slim it just falls off every one. Are there any at home to dos to make it fit? i heard layers of clear nail polish help or tape has anyone had any luck with that? id rather hear from those who have actually had success than risk messing up this (expensive) ring.How to make a big ring fit a small finger?
i know you're asking for home remedies... but if it's a really expensive and special ring, why not bring it to a jeweler and see how much they would charge you to have it re-sized?
they will do a professional and beautiful job without damaging the ring....by heating the metal and re-shaping it to the proper size.
i've had this done for a few rings myself, and i dont remember it being too expensive.
good luck!How to make a big ring fit a small finger?
I have used cello tape on the inside of the ring, but it wears away.
Here's a good link- use a cloth bandaid.
http://www.ehow.com/how_4963239_make-big鈥?/a>
Get it resized.
The best and only way is to take it to a jeweler repair man, they will make it smaller probably by removing a piece and welding it back together or probably with heat (flame). I used them before to enlarge or reduce my wife's and kids rings. Good Luck.
just wrap layers of tape around the bottom of the ring so that the tape is not visible. i did it for some time until i had time to get it re-sized. (:
I wrapped a waterproof ban-aid around mines. It feels more comfortable than tape and if you wash your hands, it won't begin to peel off.
wow ,for 2 points
sorry
i know you're asking for home remedies... but if it's a really expensive and special ring, why not bring it to a jeweler and see how much they would charge you to have it re-sized?
they will do a professional and beautiful job without damaging the ring....by heating the metal and re-shaping it to the proper size.
i've had this done for a few rings myself, and i dont remember it being too expensive.
good luck!How to make a big ring fit a small finger?
I have used cello tape on the inside of the ring, but it wears away.
Here's a good link- use a cloth bandaid.
http://www.ehow.com/how_4963239_make-big鈥?/a>
Get it resized.
The best and only way is to take it to a jeweler repair man, they will make it smaller probably by removing a piece and welding it back together or probably with heat (flame). I used them before to enlarge or reduce my wife's and kids rings. Good Luck.
just wrap layers of tape around the bottom of the ring so that the tape is not visible. i did it for some time until i had time to get it re-sized. (:
I wrapped a waterproof ban-aid around mines. It feels more comfortable than tape and if you wash your hands, it won't begin to peel off.
wow ,for 2 points
sorry
How to get over jealousy of my boyfriends ex?
I sometimes feel crazy when it comes to this situation. I don't want to be jealous of his ex, but the fact of the matter is I am. I ask myself why. I have come to these conclusions . #1. He has a child with her. I will never be able to have a child with him. #2 He has to stay in contact with her because he has a child with her. I understand this. But the contact they have I think is somewhat inappropriate. She makes him feel like if he isn't treating her the way she wants to be treated, he will not see his kid. She calls several times a day and is disrespectful to me if I answer the phone. Telling me I have no right to have his phone because she needs to get ahold of him because of his daughter. He tells me to just ignore her. He does everything he can even if it is being more nice to her, just to avoid conflict. #3. She wants him back bad! She sends him text messages asking if he wants to move in with her, or calls and says she wants to work things out. She just does not let go and move on. #4. He goes inside there home when he goes to get his daughter and brings her home. This last time he stayed for a half hr inside. He said he was in her room and getting her school pictures. I just do not see why he has to even step foot behind closed doors with that woman. Just knowing she wants him back makes me feel ill that he would allow her to get that close to him. He insures me he does not want her back. But I sometimes feel I am a rebound, a get back at her girl. I have been in some really crappy relationships in the past. And don't want to be hurt again. Otherwise he is a good guy, treats me well. Anyone have any advise? I just don't know what to do or how to get over this.How to get over jealousy of my boyfriends ex?
If it bothers you that much you should find a guy without kids. No sense in putting yourself through something you're not emotionally ready to deal with. Besides, it sounds like he's still sleeping with his ex while he's with you and that's never ok.
If it bothers you that much you should find a guy without kids. No sense in putting yourself through something you're not emotionally ready to deal with. Besides, it sounds like he's still sleeping with his ex while he's with you and that's never ok.
Okay, I know that this is long. But I really need the help. Please?
FIRST of all, thank you for reading all of this. I really appreciate it! :D
Just so you know, we are both Freshman in high school. I know, nothing should be serious at my age. I understand that. I just miss her, I don't want to be alone, she is a great person. She is the best person for me right now. I don't want to be single, because all the other girls that are pretty at my school are sluts or are really stupid, and I don't want to date anyone at any other schools. I just want her. She showed me how much fun it is to have a couple.
I used to be a big flirt like her, and i refused to date anyone. Now that she finally got me to ask her out, after much hard work on her part, I love to have a girlfriend (or her as it). She used to be obsessed with me, and now it is all gone. If she felt like that before, can't she feel like that again?
Anyway, My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for four months now. She broke up with me because we went through some rough patches, I lost interest, said that I was about to break-up with her, then went on vacation and missed her and changed my mind, but then she turned around and dumped me. I never wanted to hang out, talk on the phone, or text. I was a really bad boyfriend at the time. But I learned from my mistakes. And she knows that now. I have proved it to her.
The only thing is, another guy came in the picture. She went to winter formal with him (I went to homecoming with her, and that was the night I asked her out). Now he is attached to her. He is a lost puppy that follows her around anytime she goes to her locker. He has lost his life, it revolves around her. Of course, she liked it at first, because it was the attention that I never gave her. But now it's both me and him giving her the attention.
Also, they are not together, and never have been. She tells him that she does not want a relationship right now and wants to be single (she also says that to me). She likes being able to flirt with any guy that shows her attention. She doesn't want to restrict herself to only one guy. Anyway, he tries to call her a lot, too, and they talk on the phone. That really bothers me.
I've changed so much, in a good way. I mean, I changed all my BAD habits like not calling or texting, and ignoring..and not appreciating..and not noticing. She finally believes me that I am going to be better this time. I did every trick in the book to try and get her back, hah. I asked 50 questions on here, read 5 e-books, and did research on the web on how to get my ex back, and how to attract women. Haha, yeah I'm pathetic, but it will come to use again later in my life when I'm in the real world.
So yeah, she's decided she wants to try and make things better between us now. She want to try and get us to work again. But HE is in the way. She is a nice person, and she doesn't want to crush him and break his heart, because he is literally obsessed with her. She has try letting him off slowly and easily, but he just lets it blow by him. And he keeps on following her and talking to her like nothing is happening. It's so frustrating for the both of us. She still likes him a little, though..
Although, I think she is lying to me. Maybe she just doesn't want to hurt MY feelings. Maybe she just doesn't like me anymore, even though she flirts with me and dirty texts me.
She and him are not going out. Her and I are not going out. Everyone is single. She says she wants to stay single and have fun, without being tied down.
Anyway, what could she do? What could I do?
How can I get ';us'; to work again?
I KNOW that it would be a way better relationship this time if she just gave it a chance.
Also, could there be a possibility that she actually just doesn't like me anymore, and is just playing me because it makes her feel good?
She made a deal with her best ';guy'; friend the other day. It was that she had to choose the other guy, me, or her single life. That day she told him that she likes the other guy and that she is over me.
The stupid thing is, she is still calling me ';babe';, she is still calling me up randomly to say that she misses me, and she is still getting angry with the little things I do. I don't believe she is over me, but she might be.
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;How do I get her back? ...If not that, How do I move on from her?
Thank you for reading all of this :) I feel that I need to give detail in order to receive good advice.
BTW, I actually prefer long answers (unlike other people on here) if you don't mind. Don't be afraid to say everything on your mind.Okay, I know that this is long. But I really need the help. Please?
she sounds like a typical hot high school girl who likes to have guys (like the both of you) eating from the palm of her hand.
You do realize that if you ever did get back together she would be in control of the relationship because of your deep insecurity of being 'alone.' You should get over being 'alone.' Girls have a 6th sense that detects a guys insecurity, and when they pick up on it, sometimes they'll take full advantage. If I were you I would seek other people. after all, you are ONLY IN HIGH SCHOOL. YOU WILL MEET OTHER GIRLS although this may seem obvious but trust me, in a year you will be laughing back at this; but ONLY IF YOU DROP HER. She may actually end up coming back to you if she sees that you have your confidence back and are dating other women, but even if she did I would still recommend you stay away from her because apparently she likes to toy with guys hearts for the fun of it.Okay, I know that this is long. But I really need the help. Please?
Woww! i think she's just playing with you! you say she's not like other girls who are stupid
and sluts, but she's a flirt? What the hell? Listen you seem like a great guy and not many
guys change their way for a girl :) i bet if you really tried, you could find somebody wayy
better! Let her do whatever with her life and not be ';tied down';......but if you really want her
back (i think you shouldn't bother though) just sit down and have a conversation with her! Make her feel special and see the new you. If it helps one way to a girls heart is a tear or two ( or if your to manly for that just get her some flowers)
But personally i think you should just try to get over her. I'm sure not ALL the girls are sluts or stupid :)
Anyways i wish the best of luck to you!
P.S i wish there were guys like you at my school lol :)
Oh and if you do manage to get her back.....Dont treat her like ****! or else im gonna have to come back on here and say a think or two lol
Just so you know, we are both Freshman in high school. I know, nothing should be serious at my age. I understand that. I just miss her, I don't want to be alone, she is a great person. She is the best person for me right now. I don't want to be single, because all the other girls that are pretty at my school are sluts or are really stupid, and I don't want to date anyone at any other schools. I just want her. She showed me how much fun it is to have a couple.
I used to be a big flirt like her, and i refused to date anyone. Now that she finally got me to ask her out, after much hard work on her part, I love to have a girlfriend (or her as it). She used to be obsessed with me, and now it is all gone. If she felt like that before, can't she feel like that again?
Anyway, My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for four months now. She broke up with me because we went through some rough patches, I lost interest, said that I was about to break-up with her, then went on vacation and missed her and changed my mind, but then she turned around and dumped me. I never wanted to hang out, talk on the phone, or text. I was a really bad boyfriend at the time. But I learned from my mistakes. And she knows that now. I have proved it to her.
The only thing is, another guy came in the picture. She went to winter formal with him (I went to homecoming with her, and that was the night I asked her out). Now he is attached to her. He is a lost puppy that follows her around anytime she goes to her locker. He has lost his life, it revolves around her. Of course, she liked it at first, because it was the attention that I never gave her. But now it's both me and him giving her the attention.
Also, they are not together, and never have been. She tells him that she does not want a relationship right now and wants to be single (she also says that to me). She likes being able to flirt with any guy that shows her attention. She doesn't want to restrict herself to only one guy. Anyway, he tries to call her a lot, too, and they talk on the phone. That really bothers me.
I've changed so much, in a good way. I mean, I changed all my BAD habits like not calling or texting, and ignoring..and not appreciating..and not noticing. She finally believes me that I am going to be better this time. I did every trick in the book to try and get her back, hah. I asked 50 questions on here, read 5 e-books, and did research on the web on how to get my ex back, and how to attract women. Haha, yeah I'm pathetic, but it will come to use again later in my life when I'm in the real world.
So yeah, she's decided she wants to try and make things better between us now. She want to try and get us to work again. But HE is in the way. She is a nice person, and she doesn't want to crush him and break his heart, because he is literally obsessed with her. She has try letting him off slowly and easily, but he just lets it blow by him. And he keeps on following her and talking to her like nothing is happening. It's so frustrating for the both of us. She still likes him a little, though..
Although, I think she is lying to me. Maybe she just doesn't want to hurt MY feelings. Maybe she just doesn't like me anymore, even though she flirts with me and dirty texts me.
She and him are not going out. Her and I are not going out. Everyone is single. She says she wants to stay single and have fun, without being tied down.
Anyway, what could she do? What could I do?
How can I get ';us'; to work again?
I KNOW that it would be a way better relationship this time if she just gave it a chance.
Also, could there be a possibility that she actually just doesn't like me anymore, and is just playing me because it makes her feel good?
She made a deal with her best ';guy'; friend the other day. It was that she had to choose the other guy, me, or her single life. That day she told him that she likes the other guy and that she is over me.
The stupid thing is, she is still calling me ';babe';, she is still calling me up randomly to say that she misses me, and she is still getting angry with the little things I do. I don't believe she is over me, but she might be.
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;How do I get her back? ...If not that, How do I move on from her?
Thank you for reading all of this :) I feel that I need to give detail in order to receive good advice.
BTW, I actually prefer long answers (unlike other people on here) if you don't mind. Don't be afraid to say everything on your mind.Okay, I know that this is long. But I really need the help. Please?
she sounds like a typical hot high school girl who likes to have guys (like the both of you) eating from the palm of her hand.
You do realize that if you ever did get back together she would be in control of the relationship because of your deep insecurity of being 'alone.' You should get over being 'alone.' Girls have a 6th sense that detects a guys insecurity, and when they pick up on it, sometimes they'll take full advantage. If I were you I would seek other people. after all, you are ONLY IN HIGH SCHOOL. YOU WILL MEET OTHER GIRLS although this may seem obvious but trust me, in a year you will be laughing back at this; but ONLY IF YOU DROP HER. She may actually end up coming back to you if she sees that you have your confidence back and are dating other women, but even if she did I would still recommend you stay away from her because apparently she likes to toy with guys hearts for the fun of it.Okay, I know that this is long. But I really need the help. Please?
Woww! i think she's just playing with you! you say she's not like other girls who are stupid
and sluts, but she's a flirt? What the hell? Listen you seem like a great guy and not many
guys change their way for a girl :) i bet if you really tried, you could find somebody wayy
better! Let her do whatever with her life and not be ';tied down';......but if you really want her
back (i think you shouldn't bother though) just sit down and have a conversation with her! Make her feel special and see the new you. If it helps one way to a girls heart is a tear or two ( or if your to manly for that just get her some flowers)
But personally i think you should just try to get over her. I'm sure not ALL the girls are sluts or stupid :)
Anyways i wish the best of luck to you!
P.S i wish there were guys like you at my school lol :)
Oh and if you do manage to get her back.....Dont treat her like ****! or else im gonna have to come back on here and say a think or two lol
How to get your ex back?
my ex and i broke up about 2 months ago,
and it was over something so dumb.
we dated for a year and 7 months before,
and he's already moved on, and he's got a new girlfriend, who he has been dating for about a month and a half.
they are already engaged and stuff, which is total ****.
they didn't even know eachother 3 months ago.
well, today it hit me so unexpectedialy,
i really do miss him...
we put each other through so much, but i need him...
but if he's in love, he don't wanna come back to me...
we go to the same school,
we haven't talked since the break up,
we don't even look at each other going down the hall...
i haven't cried over him at all until today...
but now all i want to know is...how do i get my first love back, even if he has a new girlfriend...? ):How to get your ex back?
The best thing that you can do for getting back your ex boyfriend is by proving him that you are better then his actual girlfriend, so start studying her and do things better, try not to be really obvious and be creative. From a man perspective, I can tell you that a lot of things resume to sex, but of course there are other ways around!How to get your ex back?
Stalk him, roofie him, then sleep with him and get pregnant. Blackmail him into ';doing the right thing.';
You'll either get an unhappy marriage or money to pay for the abortion.
and it was over something so dumb.
we dated for a year and 7 months before,
and he's already moved on, and he's got a new girlfriend, who he has been dating for about a month and a half.
they are already engaged and stuff, which is total ****.
they didn't even know eachother 3 months ago.
well, today it hit me so unexpectedialy,
i really do miss him...
we put each other through so much, but i need him...
but if he's in love, he don't wanna come back to me...
we go to the same school,
we haven't talked since the break up,
we don't even look at each other going down the hall...
i haven't cried over him at all until today...
but now all i want to know is...how do i get my first love back, even if he has a new girlfriend...? ):How to get your ex back?
The best thing that you can do for getting back your ex boyfriend is by proving him that you are better then his actual girlfriend, so start studying her and do things better, try not to be really obvious and be creative. From a man perspective, I can tell you that a lot of things resume to sex, but of course there are other ways around!How to get your ex back?
Stalk him, roofie him, then sleep with him and get pregnant. Blackmail him into ';doing the right thing.';
You'll either get an unhappy marriage or money to pay for the abortion.
How do I get over my ex?!! Please help!?
Okay this is going to sound ridiculous!
Me and my ex boyfriend were dating for a year and a half, so we had a pretty strong relationship, but starting in the summer we started breaking up,and up to, today it has been eleven times, that's a terrible number, and i should never of taken him back. He was the one always breaking up with me, and for weird reasons, either we were spending too much time together or trust problems.
Our current breakup, I thought would be like every other time, it like deja vu really, so i figured we would get back together, but as time went on i have realized, i'm such a better person without him, he has told me he is over me, and he is already spending a lot of time with this other girl. My mind is telling me to move on and get rid of him, because all he keeps doing is hurting me over and over again, but my heart wont let go. He also told me about a week ago how he really misses me, and still thinks about me,and the thing that keeps him from completely moving on is the fact that he only sees me in his future, but now he already has another girl?
I'm trying to keep myself busy, but my mind just always keeps wandering back to him! How do i get over him!!??How do I get over my ex?!! Please help!?
this sounds stupid and so hard but it is easy and wat i always do and trust me ive been through so many heart breaks you need to get talking and flirting with different boys soon you'll find one that is cute and sweeps you off your feetHow do I get over my ex?!! Please help!?
you have to find new male friends
Hmm 11 times break up? isnt that too much girl? U definitely need to get over this guy because he does not know what he wants. I have been out of a relation over a yr and believe me its difficult to forget, but my friends helped me a lot, Few tips. Never be alone. take support of your friends and be with them. Dont go into a relationship to get over this as rebound relationships dont last too long. Enjoy being single. Go the gym and work out hard, helps to get your mind off the pain...jog once in a while when u feel sad!
Me and my ex boyfriend were dating for a year and a half, so we had a pretty strong relationship, but starting in the summer we started breaking up,and up to, today it has been eleven times, that's a terrible number, and i should never of taken him back. He was the one always breaking up with me, and for weird reasons, either we were spending too much time together or trust problems.
Our current breakup, I thought would be like every other time, it like deja vu really, so i figured we would get back together, but as time went on i have realized, i'm such a better person without him, he has told me he is over me, and he is already spending a lot of time with this other girl. My mind is telling me to move on and get rid of him, because all he keeps doing is hurting me over and over again, but my heart wont let go. He also told me about a week ago how he really misses me, and still thinks about me,and the thing that keeps him from completely moving on is the fact that he only sees me in his future, but now he already has another girl?
I'm trying to keep myself busy, but my mind just always keeps wandering back to him! How do i get over him!!??How do I get over my ex?!! Please help!?
this sounds stupid and so hard but it is easy and wat i always do and trust me ive been through so many heart breaks you need to get talking and flirting with different boys soon you'll find one that is cute and sweeps you off your feetHow do I get over my ex?!! Please help!?
you have to find new male friends
Hmm 11 times break up? isnt that too much girl? U definitely need to get over this guy because he does not know what he wants. I have been out of a relation over a yr and believe me its difficult to forget, but my friends helped me a lot, Few tips. Never be alone. take support of your friends and be with them. Dont go into a relationship to get over this as rebound relationships dont last too long. Enjoy being single. Go the gym and work out hard, helps to get your mind off the pain...jog once in a while when u feel sad!
How do I take my ex back to court for a change in custody?
I live in FL and was divorced as of September 2009. I gave the father of my three children primary custody because I was attending school and unemployed. Since he was also a full-time student, child support was calculated to be $123.00 per month for all the kids. We didn't have any daycare scholarships and I couldn't find a job. I would like to take him back to court to get custody of our youngest child. I don't want full custody, but to be the primary parent and have him the majority of the time. See Reasons Below:
We have three boys together ages 6,5, and 2. The older two boys have adjusted very well, but the youngest is having the hardest time and his care is severely lacking. He has been pretty sick lately with multiple ear infections, allergies, and a lot of bug bites. I know from when we were together that he is a slob and that he can't cook. The kids tell me they have cheesy tortillas (tortillas with melted cheese on them) or chicken nuggets for dinner.
The youngest has been asked to leave one daycare because he was biting all the time and he has still continued that pattern. He has bit not only other children, but his brothers, father, me, and grandparents. He has a very angry demeanor about him and will scream and throw fits if he doesn't get his way. (Which I know is also a part of being a two year old.)
When I have the kids, the youngest is trying to potty train. He will tell me when he has to go pee or poop and I feel like if I had more time with him, that he'd be trained by now.
I don't want to have to split the kids up, but my ex is now moving in with his parents (who have 10 other children living at home) and my three kids will be babysat by the teenagers in the house over the summer. I've been there and know that the youngest will get ';lost in the shuffle'; and I'm also scared something bad will happen to him. They have a pool and they live off of a lake and a few weeks ago one child who was 18 months was found almost dead in the lake. (This is a super-nice subdivision. the house they live in is worth atleast $350k+)
I love all my children very much and tried to make a decision that I thought was best for them, so please don't be harsh and hateful when leaving an answer for me. You don't know the extent of the relationships and problems, so I'd appreciate a ';how-to'; answer rather than a ';how did you give up your kids'; answer.How do I take my ex back to court for a change in custody?
i don't have kids but i have a friend that i am in nursing school with who and she don't have a job either and her kids live with the father until she finishes school. she struggles with it every day but she knows that what she is doing is gonna provide a better life for her and her kids. Don't feel bad or let other people make you feel like your a bad mother cause your not. After all im assuming this is only temporary until you finish school. Explain this to the older kids and if you need to take the youngest to to make sure he gets better care, then do it, after all hes only 2. keep up the good work and it will all work out.
Good Luck!!How do I take my ex back to court for a change in custody?
Wow I was going to judge you for asking for custody of just one until I read the details. You need to talk to your divorce attorney, if you don't have one you need to get one. Or, you can call social services with your concerns.
Keep in mind that the 5 and 6 year old are not goign to be happy about this either. They're still practically babies themselves.
sad situation.hair cut styles debt
We have three boys together ages 6,5, and 2. The older two boys have adjusted very well, but the youngest is having the hardest time and his care is severely lacking. He has been pretty sick lately with multiple ear infections, allergies, and a lot of bug bites. I know from when we were together that he is a slob and that he can't cook. The kids tell me they have cheesy tortillas (tortillas with melted cheese on them) or chicken nuggets for dinner.
The youngest has been asked to leave one daycare because he was biting all the time and he has still continued that pattern. He has bit not only other children, but his brothers, father, me, and grandparents. He has a very angry demeanor about him and will scream and throw fits if he doesn't get his way. (Which I know is also a part of being a two year old.)
When I have the kids, the youngest is trying to potty train. He will tell me when he has to go pee or poop and I feel like if I had more time with him, that he'd be trained by now.
I don't want to have to split the kids up, but my ex is now moving in with his parents (who have 10 other children living at home) and my three kids will be babysat by the teenagers in the house over the summer. I've been there and know that the youngest will get ';lost in the shuffle'; and I'm also scared something bad will happen to him. They have a pool and they live off of a lake and a few weeks ago one child who was 18 months was found almost dead in the lake. (This is a super-nice subdivision. the house they live in is worth atleast $350k+)
I love all my children very much and tried to make a decision that I thought was best for them, so please don't be harsh and hateful when leaving an answer for me. You don't know the extent of the relationships and problems, so I'd appreciate a ';how-to'; answer rather than a ';how did you give up your kids'; answer.How do I take my ex back to court for a change in custody?
i don't have kids but i have a friend that i am in nursing school with who and she don't have a job either and her kids live with the father until she finishes school. she struggles with it every day but she knows that what she is doing is gonna provide a better life for her and her kids. Don't feel bad or let other people make you feel like your a bad mother cause your not. After all im assuming this is only temporary until you finish school. Explain this to the older kids and if you need to take the youngest to to make sure he gets better care, then do it, after all hes only 2. keep up the good work and it will all work out.
Good Luck!!How do I take my ex back to court for a change in custody?
Wow I was going to judge you for asking for custody of just one until I read the details. You need to talk to your divorce attorney, if you don't have one you need to get one. Or, you can call social services with your concerns.
Keep in mind that the 5 and 6 year old are not goign to be happy about this either. They're still practically babies themselves.
sad situation.
How does this work in our prison systems?
When I go to court I am being charged with theft of 700 and mail fraud cause I took my ex husbands check out of his mail box.
If I plead guilty will I be sent to a state prison to serve the time for the theft and then be transported to a federal prison for the mail fraud?
(I have been told mail fraud is a federal offense which is served in a federal prison but theft is a state crime time spent in state prison.)How does this work in our prison systems?
Have your lawyer try to work out a deal with them.How does this work in our prison systems?
not sure...but this site might clear it up for you
You might get lucky. Did the D.A. offer a plea bargin hopefully dropping the mail fraud and only charging you with grand theft because it's over 500.00. Regardless you won't be sent to the Federal penetentiary I doubt you would even go to state prison unless you have a history of the same offense. If it's your first offense you might get a slap on the wrist and get probation for 5 plus years with no jail time. Talk to your lawyer or public defender see if you can get house arrest. If you do have to do jail time it would most likely be in county jail for a couple of months. I've known numerous upon numerous people go through the system and I've seen a lot. And I will bet if this is your first offense and your not in jail right now thus meaning no warrant you will most likely get probation with community service.
If you have a criminal record. ADIOS your going to do 1 year or 2 in the pen with big mama bertha as your new man. You will light her/his cigarette and she will ash it on your head and you will be forced to clip her toe nails.
If I plead guilty will I be sent to a state prison to serve the time for the theft and then be transported to a federal prison for the mail fraud?
(I have been told mail fraud is a federal offense which is served in a federal prison but theft is a state crime time spent in state prison.)How does this work in our prison systems?
Have your lawyer try to work out a deal with them.How does this work in our prison systems?
not sure...but this site might clear it up for you
You might get lucky. Did the D.A. offer a plea bargin hopefully dropping the mail fraud and only charging you with grand theft because it's over 500.00. Regardless you won't be sent to the Federal penetentiary I doubt you would even go to state prison unless you have a history of the same offense. If it's your first offense you might get a slap on the wrist and get probation for 5 plus years with no jail time. Talk to your lawyer or public defender see if you can get house arrest. If you do have to do jail time it would most likely be in county jail for a couple of months. I've known numerous upon numerous people go through the system and I've seen a lot. And I will bet if this is your first offense and your not in jail right now thus meaning no warrant you will most likely get probation with community service.
If you have a criminal record. ADIOS your going to do 1 year or 2 in the pen with big mama bertha as your new man. You will light her/his cigarette and she will ash it on your head and you will be forced to clip her toe nails.
How can you please your male partner without getting ';stuff'; all over and without oral sex?
He pleases me and I want to make him feel good too but I'm not going to give oral and I dont want to get cemen on me or anything, I dont know how to handle it because my ex always stopped right before that happened but my current partner doesn't..he's from germany must be a european thing? lolHow can you please your male partner without getting ';stuff'; all over and without oral sex?
Basically, you like it when he pleases you, but you don't like pleasing him to the fullest extent. Sounds a tad selfish to me.
Good LuckHow can you please your male partner without getting ';stuff'; all over and without oral sex?
Just play around with him using ice or something, but don't get hardcore about it. The only time ';stuff'; comes out is if you flat out give him a hardcore *******, hardcore handjob, or hardcore wild sex.
And no it's not a European thing. Most guys tend to get ';stuff'; all over their partner because it feels so damn good that they don't want it to stop...and can't control it very well because they are so attracted to you.
Some are better at controlling their orgasms better than others.
I'm not going to talk about myself though...this question is a little ';awkward'; to begin with.
oral isn't a bad thing. just try it once, then decide from there.
you don't have to get semen on you, you can have him put on a condom or even a flavored condom if you like.
have him tell you when he is getting close then stop and wait a few seconds then start again.
guys like it when a females finishes the off, it feels that much better.
Ok, well, you're going to get semen on you sometime... Have him wear a condom when you give him oral... Why won't you? There's nothing wrong with oral... Seriously... my fiance and I do it all the time... He loves it... Otherwise, give him a handjob or something... Idk? Sounds like you're a bit selfish... He does it for you... You should do it for him...
Problem : you want him be blown without the 'stuffs' getting unto you.
Consideration: It has to go somewhere.
Solution: get another girl to finish him. simple.
Result: Ur man is soooo Pleezzze ;-) so much that he will never consider leaving you again!
Find you a girl friend. If you are afraid ov his fluids, Get realistic.. Sex is sex. Go back to sex 101 or a girlfriend.
if it was me, all you'd have to do is put your titties in my mouth and face, and a tittie **** would be nice too
I think if he is reciprocating, you gotta just deal with it. Its messy but a part of the game.
Sorry, but it's gotta go somewhere.
you need a facial, you'll love it!
use a condom. thats what theyre for. someone mentioned flavored condoms. try those
Basically, you like it when he pleases you, but you don't like pleasing him to the fullest extent. Sounds a tad selfish to me.
Good LuckHow can you please your male partner without getting ';stuff'; all over and without oral sex?
Just play around with him using ice or something, but don't get hardcore about it. The only time ';stuff'; comes out is if you flat out give him a hardcore *******, hardcore handjob, or hardcore wild sex.
And no it's not a European thing. Most guys tend to get ';stuff'; all over their partner because it feels so damn good that they don't want it to stop...and can't control it very well because they are so attracted to you.
Some are better at controlling their orgasms better than others.
I'm not going to talk about myself though...this question is a little ';awkward'; to begin with.
oral isn't a bad thing. just try it once, then decide from there.
you don't have to get semen on you, you can have him put on a condom or even a flavored condom if you like.
have him tell you when he is getting close then stop and wait a few seconds then start again.
guys like it when a females finishes the off, it feels that much better.
Ok, well, you're going to get semen on you sometime... Have him wear a condom when you give him oral... Why won't you? There's nothing wrong with oral... Seriously... my fiance and I do it all the time... He loves it... Otherwise, give him a handjob or something... Idk? Sounds like you're a bit selfish... He does it for you... You should do it for him...
Problem : you want him be blown without the 'stuffs' getting unto you.
Consideration: It has to go somewhere.
Solution: get another girl to finish him. simple.
Result: Ur man is soooo Pleezzze ;-) so much that he will never consider leaving you again!
Find you a girl friend. If you are afraid ov his fluids, Get realistic.. Sex is sex. Go back to sex 101 or a girlfriend.
if it was me, all you'd have to do is put your titties in my mouth and face, and a tittie **** would be nice too
I think if he is reciprocating, you gotta just deal with it. Its messy but a part of the game.
Sorry, but it's gotta go somewhere.
you need a facial, you'll love it!
use a condom. thats what theyre for. someone mentioned flavored condoms. try those
I need help in figuring out how to get past yahoo messenger conversations?
I am trying to work things out with my ex whom I have been separated from for a year. The problem is he is always talking to this girl who is in love with him. I need to know if there is anyway to retrieve past yahoo messages if the settings are set not to save them. I do not want to uproot my child once again to move back in with him if I have to turn around and leave. This will hurt my child greatly. Please, if anyone can help or has an idea, let me know.I need help in figuring out how to get past yahoo messenger conversations?
You cannot retrieve past conversations unless the 'Save' setting was made.
The best you can hope for is to see if the last conversation is still available
Open his message window click on the top window where the messages are normally displayed and hit key F3 from the top keyboard row.
You cannot retrieve past conversations unless the 'Save' setting was made.
The best you can hope for is to see if the last conversation is still available
Open his message window click on the top window where the messages are normally displayed and hit key F3 from the top keyboard row.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
How can I get tired right after adrenaline ?
I had a fight with some ex-friends about a hour ago and it got me shaking and my blood bloiling. I really need to sleep and If i turn everything off i start thinking about it and get angry again. How can I get to sleep !? I need to sleep because I have to wake up early !
Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?
I am 5 months pregnant and I found out my partner has been ';flirting'; with a woman from work and had porn images his ex wife sent to him via e-mail. I discovered this when he left his e-mail account logged on. Admittedly, the porn images were in the ';trash'; folder and he didn't respond to them, but she sent them.
I left him today, but he is begging me to take him back. He said the porn shots of his ex were unsolicited and as far as the ';flirtatious'; e-mails between he and the co-worker, he said she is 65, overweight and a recent widow. He said he went along with it because she was lonely and is a nice woman. I do know she is older than his mother (in her 60's) and is overweight, but she is still a woman.
What would you do? I don't want my child to be raised in a ';broken home'; going between parents who couldn't make it work but at the same time, I don't want him to get away with ';cheating'; kind of behavior and set a precendent that I will take whatever BS lines he feeds me and just say ';OK!'; How could I trust him again?
What do I do? He said he has a hard time feeling guilty like he cheated as he DID NOT do anything physical with anyone. He said he is ';dying and I have to know how much he loves me.'; I don't doubt he loves me, but I do question his motives!Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?
I was ready to tell you to give him a chance till you said that he doesn't feel he did anything wrong. I'm a pretty young guy and even I know that Physical cheating is not the only way to cheat on a woman. If he was just doing it to be nice then he would have said something about it at the very start. If he can admit to being wrong then he might be worth forgiving, but if he can't even see what he has done then he is a lost cause.Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?
If he loved you so much, he wouldn't have put himself in this situation and betrayed your trust???
Will you listen if we tell you not to take him back? Nope
so my answer will be take him back because that is what you want
Well the fact he deleted the emails and didnt reply is a good thing its beyond his control what other people may do or say its all about he reacts to those situations. So unless he wrote back or something i would let that one slide..
Now, the ';flirting'; with the old fat girl i suggest maybe you talk to him and see whats really going on. maybe even talk to the lady or tell him to tell her that hes not interested but just to be a friend.
If this was the only thing hes ever done the whole time u were with him i would maybe talk about it, keep ur eyes open and forgive him. As long as he never shows any sign of this before
You are overreacting. No offense. But, give the guy a break. He should be angry at you for looking so far as to go in his deleted files. He didn't store these photos in a secret file or anything like that. It was nothing more than a desperate act by a sad woman that he choose not to hurt you with by even telling you. It meant nothing to him, but now you've blown it out of proportion. And harmless flirting with someone older than his mother? When you get into your sixties and you lose your partner in life and you feel so alone, you are going to appreciate the harmless but endearing ways people try to cheer you up with.
Don't believe him! Why would he be exchanging porn pictures with a 65 year old? I wish that you would have found out more about him before you got pregnant! If he is still communicating with his first wife; why are you two together? You are right! It does not matter the size of the woman. She could be 500 pounds. There must be something that he liked about her.
Men are cheating and it has nothing to do with you! Weather it is in person or on the computer; it is an injury to the heart! Once the heart is deceived; the trust is gone! You never view him the same way. Make sure that you are secure as far as him paying child support or spousal support. Men and women are only sorry when they get caught in the act!
I left him today, but he is begging me to take him back. He said the porn shots of his ex were unsolicited and as far as the ';flirtatious'; e-mails between he and the co-worker, he said she is 65, overweight and a recent widow. He said he went along with it because she was lonely and is a nice woman. I do know she is older than his mother (in her 60's) and is overweight, but she is still a woman.
What would you do? I don't want my child to be raised in a ';broken home'; going between parents who couldn't make it work but at the same time, I don't want him to get away with ';cheating'; kind of behavior and set a precendent that I will take whatever BS lines he feeds me and just say ';OK!'; How could I trust him again?
What do I do? He said he has a hard time feeling guilty like he cheated as he DID NOT do anything physical with anyone. He said he is ';dying and I have to know how much he loves me.'; I don't doubt he loves me, but I do question his motives!Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?
I was ready to tell you to give him a chance till you said that he doesn't feel he did anything wrong. I'm a pretty young guy and even I know that Physical cheating is not the only way to cheat on a woman. If he was just doing it to be nice then he would have said something about it at the very start. If he can admit to being wrong then he might be worth forgiving, but if he can't even see what he has done then he is a lost cause.Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?
If he loved you so much, he wouldn't have put himself in this situation and betrayed your trust???
Will you listen if we tell you not to take him back? Nope
so my answer will be take him back because that is what you want
Well the fact he deleted the emails and didnt reply is a good thing its beyond his control what other people may do or say its all about he reacts to those situations. So unless he wrote back or something i would let that one slide..
Now, the ';flirting'; with the old fat girl i suggest maybe you talk to him and see whats really going on. maybe even talk to the lady or tell him to tell her that hes not interested but just to be a friend.
If this was the only thing hes ever done the whole time u were with him i would maybe talk about it, keep ur eyes open and forgive him. As long as he never shows any sign of this before
You are overreacting. No offense. But, give the guy a break. He should be angry at you for looking so far as to go in his deleted files. He didn't store these photos in a secret file or anything like that. It was nothing more than a desperate act by a sad woman that he choose not to hurt you with by even telling you. It meant nothing to him, but now you've blown it out of proportion. And harmless flirting with someone older than his mother? When you get into your sixties and you lose your partner in life and you feel so alone, you are going to appreciate the harmless but endearing ways people try to cheer you up with.
Don't believe him! Why would he be exchanging porn pictures with a 65 year old? I wish that you would have found out more about him before you got pregnant! If he is still communicating with his first wife; why are you two together? You are right! It does not matter the size of the woman. She could be 500 pounds. There must be something that he liked about her.
Men are cheating and it has nothing to do with you! Weather it is in person or on the computer; it is an injury to the heart! Once the heart is deceived; the trust is gone! You never view him the same way. Make sure that you are secure as far as him paying child support or spousal support. Men and women are only sorry when they get caught in the act!
Guys: if you could change one thing about the way you treated your ex girlfriend what would it be?
ive always wanted to know how yall would change if you would at all.Guys: if you could change one thing about the way you treated your ex girlfriend what would it be?
I wish I wouldn't snap at her as often as I do. I guess I already have a bit of a temper... so when I'm already in a bad mood, and she wants to talk about it, I guess it annoys me. I end up saying something rude and hurtful... I feel like crap afterward. She puts me in my place though. A good slap across the face and being called an a$shole really helps.... jk.hair cut styles debt
I wish I wouldn't snap at her as often as I do. I guess I already have a bit of a temper... so when I'm already in a bad mood, and she wants to talk about it, I guess it annoys me. I end up saying something rude and hurtful... I feel like crap afterward. She puts me in my place though. A good slap across the face and being called an a$shole really helps.... jk.
I'm so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend. I have never been the type of girl to be jealous?
Ok, so here's the thing. My boyfriend cheated on me in the past for almost a year with his ex girlfriend, and always manipulated me and told me I was crazy. Well still to this day, she tries to contact him, and I know its over with. I have tried so hard to trust him, and I know it isn't a relationship without trust, but he hurt me soo bad. And now anytime I see another girl or him talk to another girl, I get so jealous, and I hate it. I don't know why I am this way with him. With my past relationships, I would just break up with the guy if he hurt me and moved on and didn't care. But with my previous boyfriend, It's like I fell head over heels for him in no time, and I have never allowed myself to do that in any other relationship. I have no idea how to control it, because I've never had to deal with it before. In the past, my exes would be head over heels for me, and it would be push me away so bad, but now it's me that's head over heels. If anyone has some advice please let me know because I would love some good advice!I'm so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend. I have never been the type of girl to be jealous?
once a cheater always a cheaterI'm so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend. I have never been the type of girl to be jealous?
Drop him. Obviously you don't trust him. I don't blame you, either. It's hard to trust someone once they have betrayed you, no matter how much you love them. This is where your jealousy stems from. All this mistrust and uncertainty. Besides, this relationship is not good for you as a person. It's making you act out of character (becoming insanely jealous when you say that's not how you really are). Get someone who isn't going to be cheating on you and you can trust.
It's seems like you are never going to let go of the past
and if you keep being jealous and not forget about that past, that might cause him to cheat again
Now..if you can't handle him talking to any girls, having his ex gf contact him
You can't be with this guy, it isn't healthy, you are always going to be sad always going to be jealous always going to think of him cheating on you
Do you want to be like that for a long time...For a guy that you are head over heels with..
Think about it is he really good for me?
Because it doesn't seem your much happy and what's a relationship without happiness
I'm sorry but i think the best thing to do about this is move on and just end the relationship
He hurt you badly and it's never really going to go away
Go find another fish in the sea, or let the fish find you ^_^
It is hard to shed luggage that comes from being hurt like that. When married people seek counselling for infidelity, very few make it in the long run because the issue of trust will always be in the back of their mind. I remember rifling through my ex's stuff once looking for evidence of a repeating cheat. I stopped myself and realized...wait a minute... I am really on a venture to try and hurt myself. So I asked myself why. I had low self esteem from being cheated on, thats why.
The key to conquering the feelings of unhealthy jealousy (there is a healthy kind also) is to analyze your perceptions. Are they real or are or are you making the worst of things. If you find they are real then get away from this dude....there are plenty of good people out there who will respect and value you, and will not dare cheat on you. Learn the difference between ';inference'; and ';observation';. Its like when you see a car in front with its turn signal on...you might infer that they are going to turn. In reality, they may have left it on from the last turn, or its broken, or they were going to turn but now they are not and they forgot to turn it off...ect. If you observe your boyfriend with another girl, allow yourself some time to run over all the possibilities, the positive ones too. Things are not always what you first think they are.
If it turns out that you are making the worst of things then you need to back off and give this guy some room or else you will drive him away from you. Nobody likes being smothered or wrongfully accused.
The idea is to find someone you trust by keeping both eyes wide open, after you are with them for a while continue on with one eye open, so to speak. Many times a person cheats not because they don't like you as much, they cheat because they think they can get away with it. If this is the case you are best to find another person because this is the makings of a scoundrel you could never trust for anything.
Statistics show that the #1 reason men cheat on their wives is because the ';other'; woman makes them feel good about themselves. If you constantly accuse or harrass the guy and he is not doing anything wrong, you may very well drive him into the arms of another girl because you don't make him feel good about himself. get it?
once a cheater always a cheaterI'm so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend. I have never been the type of girl to be jealous?
Drop him. Obviously you don't trust him. I don't blame you, either. It's hard to trust someone once they have betrayed you, no matter how much you love them. This is where your jealousy stems from. All this mistrust and uncertainty. Besides, this relationship is not good for you as a person. It's making you act out of character (becoming insanely jealous when you say that's not how you really are). Get someone who isn't going to be cheating on you and you can trust.
It's seems like you are never going to let go of the past
and if you keep being jealous and not forget about that past, that might cause him to cheat again
Now..if you can't handle him talking to any girls, having his ex gf contact him
You can't be with this guy, it isn't healthy, you are always going to be sad always going to be jealous always going to think of him cheating on you
Do you want to be like that for a long time...For a guy that you are head over heels with..
Think about it is he really good for me?
Because it doesn't seem your much happy and what's a relationship without happiness
I'm sorry but i think the best thing to do about this is move on and just end the relationship
He hurt you badly and it's never really going to go away
Go find another fish in the sea, or let the fish find you ^_^
It is hard to shed luggage that comes from being hurt like that. When married people seek counselling for infidelity, very few make it in the long run because the issue of trust will always be in the back of their mind. I remember rifling through my ex's stuff once looking for evidence of a repeating cheat. I stopped myself and realized...wait a minute... I am really on a venture to try and hurt myself. So I asked myself why. I had low self esteem from being cheated on, thats why.
The key to conquering the feelings of unhealthy jealousy (there is a healthy kind also) is to analyze your perceptions. Are they real or are or are you making the worst of things. If you find they are real then get away from this dude....there are plenty of good people out there who will respect and value you, and will not dare cheat on you. Learn the difference between ';inference'; and ';observation';. Its like when you see a car in front with its turn signal on...you might infer that they are going to turn. In reality, they may have left it on from the last turn, or its broken, or they were going to turn but now they are not and they forgot to turn it off...ect. If you observe your boyfriend with another girl, allow yourself some time to run over all the possibilities, the positive ones too. Things are not always what you first think they are.
If it turns out that you are making the worst of things then you need to back off and give this guy some room or else you will drive him away from you. Nobody likes being smothered or wrongfully accused.
The idea is to find someone you trust by keeping both eyes wide open, after you are with them for a while continue on with one eye open, so to speak. Many times a person cheats not because they don't like you as much, they cheat because they think they can get away with it. If this is the case you are best to find another person because this is the makings of a scoundrel you could never trust for anything.
Statistics show that the #1 reason men cheat on their wives is because the ';other'; woman makes them feel good about themselves. If you constantly accuse or harrass the guy and he is not doing anything wrong, you may very well drive him into the arms of another girl because you don't make him feel good about himself. get it?
Why am I so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend?
Ok here's the thing, I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He cheated on me with his ex, several times. He would always manipulate me and call me crazy, etc. I have never allowed a guy to treat me the way he has. If a guy ever tried to treat me bad in anyway, I would always call it off with them and never think twice about it. But now I get EXTREMELY jealous of other girls, especially when I see him talking to one. And also just to add this in, we are now in a long distance relationship. Like a thousand miles apart. I've tried so hard to trust him, but every time I give him my trust, he takes COMPLETE advantage of it. In the past, it would be my ex's that were head over heels for me, and it would drive me crazy and push me away so much. But now it's me that's head over heels, and I have no idea how to handle it or handle the jealousy. I know it's not a relationship unless there's trust, but how do I give him my trust back? If anyone has advice, please feel free to respond. I would love some advice. Thanks!Why am I so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend?
why would you stay with a guy that cheated on your several times? sounds like you might have a couple screws missing upstairs...Why am I so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend?
i definitly think you should leave him if he cheated on you before then he might do it again I say you just leave him.
Wow, are you a masochist or what? You're jealous of a boyfriend after he cheated on you and in a long distance relationship? Why not just juggle flaming torches while swallowing razor blades? It's safer!
Jealousy in anyone is evidence that they don't feel secure in a relationship. Even people (either gender) whose BF/GF never cheated on them are sometimes insanely jealous, and you can drive a person away that way. Normally I'd say you have to get over it.
But the guy already cheated on you! Was that okay? Do you think he might do it again, especially in a long-distance relationship where you're not even there? Would you mind? Why do you do this to yourself?
Move on. No reason to let yourself continue to be trampled on.
omfg dump his sleazy a** already!!
u shouldnt stay with a guy that has cheated on u
text him and tell him u sucked off a dog, that will get him reeal jealous of u ;)
You shouldn't be dating this jerk! trust me i've been through word for word the exact same thing! not worth it! i know you probably wont listen to me and you're going to have to learn the hard way like me but call it quits don't give this guy the attention he obviously craves. he's not worth your time.i always felt well it was my fault he got mad and yelled at me. i shouldn't blame him. hunny you are in an abusive relationship. he's is massively abusing you! this happened to me about a year ago and i still haven't gotten over it. call it quits ASAP! trust me the sooner the better. and i literally had to have my friends take my phone from me so i wouldn't call him idk if you'd have to do that but do something. no girl deserves to be abused.
One word, insecurity. You have good reason to be insecure, he broke that trust in the worst way. They say that love triggers the same chemical reaction that any kind of addiction would. You are trying to ';win'; the unwinnable. It might be the hardest thing you do, but walk away. Remember, loving yourself is the beggining of a lifelong relationship.
You already know the answer....cut your losses. if you have caught him cheating SEVERAL times and you all were in the same area, why wouldn't he cheat thousands of miles away with fresh meat. You have to find you again, build your esteem and worth back, he has seemed to changed the person you were. No one can do anything to you unless you allow it. He is disrespecting you. if it didn't work when you all lived near each other, why would it now. Do what is best for you and I pray that you don't let this happen to you again. It make take years, but he will regret mistreating you and he may even say you let him.
Because your in love, you allow him to treat you like trash. Think about your future, you can be happier, and its not that difficult to find someone who wont cheat. Find someone brand new. Dont trust a *****.
wow...this is a rough situation. i know the last thing in the world you want to do is break up with him because youre in love, and it's okay for now but if youre looking for a husband than maybe it is time to move on. you cant constantly be worrying about him cheating on you, and once a cheater always a cheater to be honest. i know this is really hard to admit to yourself but hes not right for you. you need someone who will treat you like a princess and who would never put any other girl before you. jealousy is not healthy in a relationship. if you talk to him and he promises with all his heart that he will never cheat on you then give him another chance and work on not being jealous because it is doable. if he cheats on you one more time, then its over. dont let him walk all over you and do NOT take him back. hope this helps and good luck
It is not your fault. He gave you a reason to not trust him. He damaged your self-esteem which may never rebuild as long as you are with him. The best thing for you is to move on if not then seek professional help to overcome your pain.
when my girlfriend cheated on me. it took a while to work things between us. i forgave her and we continued to go out (we had 1yr and 5month) and she really proved to me that she wasnt going to do it again... but when i was trying to get her trust back i use to get jelous with every guy i saw her with cause i was scared of her doing it again. if he cheated on you by having sex with his ex multiple times and he didnt listen then i dont think he ever will especially now that its a long distance relationship.... i dont think you can get the trust you want because in order to get that trust he must show it.
why would you stay with a guy that cheated on your several times? sounds like you might have a couple screws missing upstairs...Why am I so jealous of other girls when it comes to my boyfriend?
i definitly think you should leave him if he cheated on you before then he might do it again I say you just leave him.
Wow, are you a masochist or what? You're jealous of a boyfriend after he cheated on you and in a long distance relationship? Why not just juggle flaming torches while swallowing razor blades? It's safer!
Jealousy in anyone is evidence that they don't feel secure in a relationship. Even people (either gender) whose BF/GF never cheated on them are sometimes insanely jealous, and you can drive a person away that way. Normally I'd say you have to get over it.
But the guy already cheated on you! Was that okay? Do you think he might do it again, especially in a long-distance relationship where you're not even there? Would you mind? Why do you do this to yourself?
Move on. No reason to let yourself continue to be trampled on.
omfg dump his sleazy a** already!!
u shouldnt stay with a guy that has cheated on u
text him and tell him u sucked off a dog, that will get him reeal jealous of u ;)
You shouldn't be dating this jerk! trust me i've been through word for word the exact same thing! not worth it! i know you probably wont listen to me and you're going to have to learn the hard way like me but call it quits don't give this guy the attention he obviously craves. he's not worth your time.i always felt well it was my fault he got mad and yelled at me. i shouldn't blame him. hunny you are in an abusive relationship. he's is massively abusing you! this happened to me about a year ago and i still haven't gotten over it. call it quits ASAP! trust me the sooner the better. and i literally had to have my friends take my phone from me so i wouldn't call him idk if you'd have to do that but do something. no girl deserves to be abused.
One word, insecurity. You have good reason to be insecure, he broke that trust in the worst way. They say that love triggers the same chemical reaction that any kind of addiction would. You are trying to ';win'; the unwinnable. It might be the hardest thing you do, but walk away. Remember, loving yourself is the beggining of a lifelong relationship.
You already know the answer....cut your losses. if you have caught him cheating SEVERAL times and you all were in the same area, why wouldn't he cheat thousands of miles away with fresh meat. You have to find you again, build your esteem and worth back, he has seemed to changed the person you were. No one can do anything to you unless you allow it. He is disrespecting you. if it didn't work when you all lived near each other, why would it now. Do what is best for you and I pray that you don't let this happen to you again. It make take years, but he will regret mistreating you and he may even say you let him.
Because your in love, you allow him to treat you like trash. Think about your future, you can be happier, and its not that difficult to find someone who wont cheat. Find someone brand new. Dont trust a *****.
wow...this is a rough situation. i know the last thing in the world you want to do is break up with him because youre in love, and it's okay for now but if youre looking for a husband than maybe it is time to move on. you cant constantly be worrying about him cheating on you, and once a cheater always a cheater to be honest. i know this is really hard to admit to yourself but hes not right for you. you need someone who will treat you like a princess and who would never put any other girl before you. jealousy is not healthy in a relationship. if you talk to him and he promises with all his heart that he will never cheat on you then give him another chance and work on not being jealous because it is doable. if he cheats on you one more time, then its over. dont let him walk all over you and do NOT take him back. hope this helps and good luck
It is not your fault. He gave you a reason to not trust him. He damaged your self-esteem which may never rebuild as long as you are with him. The best thing for you is to move on if not then seek professional help to overcome your pain.
when my girlfriend cheated on me. it took a while to work things between us. i forgave her and we continued to go out (we had 1yr and 5month) and she really proved to me that she wasnt going to do it again... but when i was trying to get her trust back i use to get jelous with every guy i saw her with cause i was scared of her doing it again. if he cheated on you by having sex with his ex multiple times and he didnt listen then i dont think he ever will especially now that its a long distance relationship.... i dont think you can get the trust you want because in order to get that trust he must show it.
Can someone help on these math problems?
1. When the Justices of the Supreme Court assemble each day, each justice shakes hands with each of the other justices. There are a total of 36 handshakes made by the justices. The total number of handshakes, h, for n people is given by the equation h=n2-n/2
2. Find the value of ';c'; that will make 25x2-40x+';c'; a perfect square trinomial
Can someone please explain to me how to do these?
When there is a letter and a 2 the two is supposed to be a square.
ex. x2Can someone help on these math problems?
Last question first.... I do believe that you mean an exponent.
as in x2 means x^2. The number is generally written in a smaller font and superscripted on the base.
Now,
h = (n^2 - n)/2 as I believe that the entire n^2 - n is in the numerator of the fraction.
36 = (n^2 - n)/2
I hate fractions, so multiply by 2
72 = n^2 - n
Get equal to zerio
n^2 - n - 72 = 0
Factor
(n - 9)(n + 8) = 0
Set each factor equal to zero and solve them
n - 9 = 0, n + 8 = 0
n = 9 , n = - 8
Since you can't have negative eight people, the answer is 9 justices.
2. 25x^2 - 40 x + c
(5x - ____) (5x - ____)
Since (using FOIL) you know that making a perfect square trinomial will require that both factors be identical, and since the first terms is 25x^2, you know that you have to have a 5x as the First terms in the factors. You also know that both factors have a negative sign between the terms b/c you have to have a -40 when you combine the outer terms and the inner terms. Since those will both be the same, we basically want HALF of -40x (which is -20x ) to be the product of the Outer terms and the Inner terms. To get that, we need to put a 4 on both of those spaces I have above...
( 5x - 4 )( 5x - 4 )
Now multiply the binomials and you will get 25x^2 - 40x + 16. So, c has to equal 16.
2. Find the value of ';c'; that will make 25x2-40x+';c'; a perfect square trinomial
Can someone please explain to me how to do these?
When there is a letter and a 2 the two is supposed to be a square.
ex. x2Can someone help on these math problems?
Last question first.... I do believe that you mean an exponent.
as in x2 means x^2. The number is generally written in a smaller font and superscripted on the base.
Now,
h = (n^2 - n)/2 as I believe that the entire n^2 - n is in the numerator of the fraction.
36 = (n^2 - n)/2
I hate fractions, so multiply by 2
72 = n^2 - n
Get equal to zerio
n^2 - n - 72 = 0
Factor
(n - 9)(n + 8) = 0
Set each factor equal to zero and solve them
n - 9 = 0, n + 8 = 0
n = 9 , n = - 8
Since you can't have negative eight people, the answer is 9 justices.
2. 25x^2 - 40 x + c
(5x - ____) (5x - ____)
Since (using FOIL) you know that making a perfect square trinomial will require that both factors be identical, and since the first terms is 25x^2, you know that you have to have a 5x as the First terms in the factors. You also know that both factors have a negative sign between the terms b/c you have to have a -40 when you combine the outer terms and the inner terms. Since those will both be the same, we basically want HALF of -40x (which is -20x ) to be the product of the Outer terms and the Inner terms. To get that, we need to put a 4 on both of those spaces I have above...
( 5x - 4 )( 5x - 4 )
Now multiply the binomials and you will get 25x^2 - 40x + 16. So, c has to equal 16.
What to do with a sick and obsessive ex-boyfriend?
since he's pressuring me to have sex again i just told him to leave my house. and the times that he comes he has nothing in mind for us to do other than to make out. i love him but i just not ready to have sex, even if i had before. he wont leave my house and i dont want anyone to know because it will be just more embarrassing. dont know if am being stupid but not like if i want to say: he's pressuring me for sex when we had before in front of any family members. he wont leave my house and for this reason i feel he's being disrespectful. So really, i told him that i am dumping him too. Any ideas in how i could kick him out of the house?What to do with a sick and obsessive ex-boyfriend?
fTHE POSSIBLITY OF AN ONLY WAY IS... well actually 2 either get a restraining order or since hes your ex threaten to call the police for him tresspassing on your propertyWhat to do with a sick and obsessive ex-boyfriend?
u shud really tell him off, u're not his sex toy for him to come when he feel like having sex with. u're dumping him, well tell him he got left, his time is over, n he's history now. n it's ur house so u can kick him out whenever. he cant demand to stay coz u hav every right to kick him out. seems lik he wont leave u anytime soon unless u got someone else.
Call the cops! He is being disrespectful. And that is probably all he wants from you anyway and once you give it to him, he will be on to the next girl. Most males are sleazy scum buckets. Love yourself first %26amp; if the f@%26amp;%tard won't wait til you're ready, guess what, he doesn't love or respect you. Save it for someone who doesn't pressure you and respects you.
You sound pretty strong so I don't think I need to tell you this, but anyways: do not mistake his constant advances for commitment to you, or love. This is a means of control, and if you let it drag on it will only get WORSE. It's easier to cut it off sooner than later. Good luck.
fTHE POSSIBLITY OF AN ONLY WAY IS... well actually 2 either get a restraining order or since hes your ex threaten to call the police for him tresspassing on your propertyWhat to do with a sick and obsessive ex-boyfriend?
u shud really tell him off, u're not his sex toy for him to come when he feel like having sex with. u're dumping him, well tell him he got left, his time is over, n he's history now. n it's ur house so u can kick him out whenever. he cant demand to stay coz u hav every right to kick him out. seems lik he wont leave u anytime soon unless u got someone else.
Call the cops! He is being disrespectful. And that is probably all he wants from you anyway and once you give it to him, he will be on to the next girl. Most males are sleazy scum buckets. Love yourself first %26amp; if the f@%26amp;%tard won't wait til you're ready, guess what, he doesn't love or respect you. Save it for someone who doesn't pressure you and respects you.
You sound pretty strong so I don't think I need to tell you this, but anyways: do not mistake his constant advances for commitment to you, or love. This is a means of control, and if you let it drag on it will only get WORSE. It's easier to cut it off sooner than later. Good luck.
What is happening to me?
I divorced 6 years ago because I felt I wasnt able emotionaly survive with my husband. He was not a bad man but was a very rigid and I even I loved him very much I couldnt take it anymore. I was always under control: or my family or my husband and never had a chance to live life on my own terms. I was very excited to brake free and believed my life would be just great from now on.
I have education, attractive and smart so I thought I would be just fine. Only problem was that I wasnt born in USA, I came from Eastern Europe and my ex is white American from middle class.
However, somehow thing turned out different. First I could not meet new friends who would undertand my craving to be my own person. Or I do not know where to find them. So, after all these time I still have no friends. Than I met guy after guy who were nothing but abusive and when I finaly thought I meet an innocent one (as myself) who want a real thing, he ended up being the worse of all end I was for about a year manipulated, used and lyied to that realy took toll on my self esteem amd emotional health. I stopped sleeping and became depressed.
I did not even recover yet when my ex husband, who actualy still my best friend than betrayed my trust for the first time in our history and we stopped being friends. That added to my depression, I had no job, I lost my only friend and was obsolutely destroyed. My mother and my sister added to it stilling my share to our family property...
Here I was, no money, job, friends, family and health... I was thinking to die every day for 3 years. I also realized I was too naive, too trustfull and too inexpirinced... My self esteem was completely going... I tryed survive, doing all kinds of odd jobs but my health my looks my hopes was all going..
Now I started talking to my mother and moved in with her, I am doing a very low payng job with college degree and tried do not think too much because I am afraid where my thinking would take me ...
Please, any advise as for how to get my life back...What is happening to me?
I think what jumps out at me first is your description of your now ex-husband. He was controlling and inflexible. Why do you think you chose to marry someone like that? Was your father or a close male relative much the same way when you were growing up? This isn't always the case, but it often is.
It seems as though you feel that you are so dysfunctional that the only men who would want you also have lots of issues themselves. This is a very common, but also very unfortunate cycle that people get caught in over and over again. Breaking that cycle requires courage and also the ability to see yourself in a better light. What you seek is to believe that you really are a worthwhile person, and I know that you are.
Once you believe it, then you will be on the road to recovery. Learn to love yourself.What is happening to me?
no simple answer to solve your problem, i would suggest you see a psychologist to help sort out your issues and find the answers you need.
I have education, attractive and smart so I thought I would be just fine. Only problem was that I wasnt born in USA, I came from Eastern Europe and my ex is white American from middle class.
However, somehow thing turned out different. First I could not meet new friends who would undertand my craving to be my own person. Or I do not know where to find them. So, after all these time I still have no friends. Than I met guy after guy who were nothing but abusive and when I finaly thought I meet an innocent one (as myself) who want a real thing, he ended up being the worse of all end I was for about a year manipulated, used and lyied to that realy took toll on my self esteem amd emotional health. I stopped sleeping and became depressed.
I did not even recover yet when my ex husband, who actualy still my best friend than betrayed my trust for the first time in our history and we stopped being friends. That added to my depression, I had no job, I lost my only friend and was obsolutely destroyed. My mother and my sister added to it stilling my share to our family property...
Here I was, no money, job, friends, family and health... I was thinking to die every day for 3 years. I also realized I was too naive, too trustfull and too inexpirinced... My self esteem was completely going... I tryed survive, doing all kinds of odd jobs but my health my looks my hopes was all going..
Now I started talking to my mother and moved in with her, I am doing a very low payng job with college degree and tried do not think too much because I am afraid where my thinking would take me ...
Please, any advise as for how to get my life back...What is happening to me?
I think what jumps out at me first is your description of your now ex-husband. He was controlling and inflexible. Why do you think you chose to marry someone like that? Was your father or a close male relative much the same way when you were growing up? This isn't always the case, but it often is.
It seems as though you feel that you are so dysfunctional that the only men who would want you also have lots of issues themselves. This is a very common, but also very unfortunate cycle that people get caught in over and over again. Breaking that cycle requires courage and also the ability to see yourself in a better light. What you seek is to believe that you really are a worthwhile person, and I know that you are.
Once you believe it, then you will be on the road to recovery. Learn to love yourself.What is happening to me?
no simple answer to solve your problem, i would suggest you see a psychologist to help sort out your issues and find the answers you need.
In-laws invited themselves to stay in my house... what can I do?
My in-laws live 7 hours away from us, in the same state. My husband and I have a house project to change all our windows in our mobile home, and he told his dad we were going to do that soon. Then they suggested coming down to help him with the windows and staying in our place (they said that). The thing is, they never accepted me in the family, just because I am from a different country. But my husband and I have been happily married for 9 years now (no kids). We have had many major problems with them because they think they can meddle in our lives and tell us how to do things, and I cannot take that. They never call us, never send us an anniversary card, not even an email. My husband is the one who calls them once in a while. They don't talk to me. When they come here (only came once), they never made themselves useful. For ex: my mother-in-law didn't help me in the kitchen, or setting the table for dinner, etc. They want us to do everything for them just because they think they are entitled to. My husband was upset that I told him I cannot have them here this time because I'm going to nursing school, and I have no time and energy to be catering to their needs. I thought their help would be good, but thinking about the things I have to do for them (including sleeping on the floor to let them have our bed), cooking for all these people (we are short on money right now), and keeping them company for like 3 or 4 days would be too much for me. My husband doesn't understand that. What can I do about it? P.S.: they never stayed in our house. The only time they came to visit they stayed in a hotel overnight and went back home the next day. Thanks!skin lesions debt
I have a crush on my ex boyfriends sister.?
my boyfriend and i are both 23 years old, we attend the same university. His sister is 25 and she is so hott! She is very friendly with me, even since the breakup, but she has never dated a female, neither have I but I feel a connection. How should i approach her? I was thinking I could just tell her that she is really hott and kiss on her? I don't know how to be a lesbo? is this a good or bad idea?I have a crush on my ex boyfriends sister.?
do not just go in and kiss her, u dont know how she is going to react. I would just make little moves like idk..try flirting with her and see how she takes that, but do not touch in her anyways because u dont know how she is going to react she may smack you. just flirt with her and see if she goes along with it..if she goes along with it, then try bringing up being w/ a girl and THEN see how she reacts to that. But do it slowly.I have a crush on my ex boyfriends sister.?
You should ask her to go to the mall with you or something like a girls day out. Then throughout the day figure her out.
It is probable that she is just nice and not a lesbian, but it is up to you to find out.
FYI: if she hasnt dated a female i dont think it wise to just kiss her out of the blue you might scare her off.
that completely fuxkeed idea why cant you girls be a simply friends and if u want to be lesbo welcome to the club of sin's then
Umm...she might not be a lesbo...
I wouldn't try it...but whatever, all homos are gross and weird anyways.
do not just go in and kiss her, u dont know how she is going to react. I would just make little moves like idk..try flirting with her and see how she takes that, but do not touch in her anyways because u dont know how she is going to react she may smack you. just flirt with her and see if she goes along with it..if she goes along with it, then try bringing up being w/ a girl and THEN see how she reacts to that. But do it slowly.I have a crush on my ex boyfriends sister.?
You should ask her to go to the mall with you or something like a girls day out. Then throughout the day figure her out.
It is probable that she is just nice and not a lesbian, but it is up to you to find out.
FYI: if she hasnt dated a female i dont think it wise to just kiss her out of the blue you might scare her off.
that completely fuxkeed idea why cant you girls be a simply friends and if u want to be lesbo welcome to the club of sin's then
Umm...she might not be a lesbo...
I wouldn't try it...but whatever, all homos are gross and weird anyways.
How to Block specific website in specific time?
Ex. How to block facebook app at 11 pm in the evening..
is there any software or trick that i can use to do this thing?
hope somebody could help me... thanksHow to Block specific website in specific time?
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hope it helpsHow to Block specific website in specific time?
You can try K9 Internet filter which is free software
However it blocks access to the whole of the internet at certain times
and you can block websites by category as well as individual sites
What I will state it wont block 1 specific website at 1 perticular time
It will either block the website 24/7 and block access to the whole internet at 11 pm but not just a single website for that perticular time
SentryPc may help.It's parental control software which enables you to control, restrict and record access and usage of your PC. You can control how long, and when users are allowed to use the computer, prevent the use of specific programs, block access to certain websites, restrict access to Windows functions, and more.
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Follow the following steps to block websites
Step1: Open your browser tools. Once you have opened Internet Explorer, click on the ';Tools'; tab and then on the ';Internet Options'; tab.
Step2: Enable the Content Advisor. Once the ';Internet Options'; tab is opened, click on the word ';Content'; and then click ';Enable'; found under the title ';Content Advisor.';
Step3: Disable the website. From the ';Content Advisor'; click on the ';Approved Sites'; tab and enter the URL of the website you wish to block. Click the ';Never'; tab and submit the change by adding a password you will be able to remember easily.
Try some parental control software, you may find a list here
http://www.parentalfiltercontrol.com/
is there any software or trick that i can use to do this thing?
hope somebody could help me... thanksHow to Block specific website in specific time?
http://www.monitoring-softwares.com/comp鈥?/a>
hope it helpsHow to Block specific website in specific time?
You can try K9 Internet filter which is free software
However it blocks access to the whole of the internet at certain times
and you can block websites by category as well as individual sites
What I will state it wont block 1 specific website at 1 perticular time
It will either block the website 24/7 and block access to the whole internet at 11 pm but not just a single website for that perticular time
SentryPc may help.It's parental control software which enables you to control, restrict and record access and usage of your PC. You can control how long, and when users are allowed to use the computer, prevent the use of specific programs, block access to certain websites, restrict access to Windows functions, and more.
http://www.spy-tech-monitoring.com/spyte鈥?/a>
Follow the following steps to block websites
Step1: Open your browser tools. Once you have opened Internet Explorer, click on the ';Tools'; tab and then on the ';Internet Options'; tab.
Step2: Enable the Content Advisor. Once the ';Internet Options'; tab is opened, click on the word ';Content'; and then click ';Enable'; found under the title ';Content Advisor.';
Step3: Disable the website. From the ';Content Advisor'; click on the ';Approved Sites'; tab and enter the URL of the website you wish to block. Click the ';Never'; tab and submit the change by adding a password you will be able to remember easily.
Try some parental control software, you may find a list here
http://www.parentalfiltercontrol.com/
How would you make a guy fall for you ?
I know you can't force love , but I'm curious as to how would you get a guy to like you more ?
Like, I've recently developed feelings for my ex boyfriend . But it's more complicated than that, we're **** friends now . Messed up I know . My friends say he looks at me a lot around school, and we do chill and watch movies sometimes, it's really nice. And a few days ago, i asked him if he would ever date me again in the future. And he said maybe. Which I take was a polite no haha.
But I'm not gonna go be depressed about it, I wanna do something about it . So any tips ?
Thanks :]How would you make a guy fall for you ?
Trip him--That should make him fall. Haha, jk :P
Just let him go, cuz it seems like he's not interested in another bf-gf relationship again. Move on....How would you make a guy fall for you ?
For the sake of keeping a relatively humorous thread going, get him asleep, start giving him head while he's asleep with a post-it note on the top of your head saying 'DATE ME'
why is he your ';ex';? what were the reasons you broke up? what has changed since then? likely nothing has changed. why can't you learn from past mistakes and move on? Is he the only guy around you? Please snap out of it and move on.
Sorry.. but you never go back.. U always
keep moving forward.. he is your EX for a
reason.....
It didn't work out.. so move on..
Ur feelings will pass... don't make a fool
out of yourself..
good luck
just be honest and tell him that you like him
start with either hj or bj
Like, I've recently developed feelings for my ex boyfriend . But it's more complicated than that, we're **** friends now . Messed up I know . My friends say he looks at me a lot around school, and we do chill and watch movies sometimes, it's really nice. And a few days ago, i asked him if he would ever date me again in the future. And he said maybe. Which I take was a polite no haha.
But I'm not gonna go be depressed about it, I wanna do something about it . So any tips ?
Thanks :]How would you make a guy fall for you ?
Trip him--That should make him fall. Haha, jk :P
Just let him go, cuz it seems like he's not interested in another bf-gf relationship again. Move on....How would you make a guy fall for you ?
For the sake of keeping a relatively humorous thread going, get him asleep, start giving him head while he's asleep with a post-it note on the top of your head saying 'DATE ME'
why is he your ';ex';? what were the reasons you broke up? what has changed since then? likely nothing has changed. why can't you learn from past mistakes and move on? Is he the only guy around you? Please snap out of it and move on.
Sorry.. but you never go back.. U always
keep moving forward.. he is your EX for a
reason.....
It didn't work out.. so move on..
Ur feelings will pass... don't make a fool
out of yourself..
good luck
just be honest and tell him that you like him
start with either hj or bj
How do I get a prom date in three weeks?
I broke up with my ex in March. I was originially going with her. After we broke up, I was going to go with one of her friends, but I realize that most of her friends probably hate me. And, I don't know that many girls outside my ex's group. Shiiitt.How do I get a prom date in three weeks?
Do not go with one of her friends. That would create unnecessary drama in both of your lives, and the last thing she needs right now is that kind of additional heartbreak. It would put a strain on her friendship with the girl, and with you, and possibly you and the girl. Find someone that has no connections to her. You'll both be happier.
Do not go with one of her friends. That would create unnecessary drama in both of your lives, and the last thing she needs right now is that kind of additional heartbreak. It would put a strain on her friendship with the girl, and with you, and possibly you and the girl. Find someone that has no connections to her. You'll both be happier.
How long does it take to get over a heart break?
I just broke up with my ex last night and I don't regret it! But it still hurts to know that you loved that person and now your not with them anymore. ):How long does it take to get over a heart break?
The typical answer is at least 1/3 of the total time you were together. So do things that you're interested in, spend some time being properly sad or writing in a journal, but definitely get out and have fun every once in a while! Remember, the only thing that can fix it is time and a good attitude. Bring your self-confidence to the table and everything else will fall into place.How long does it take to get over a heart break?
you never get over it it hearts forever but u get used to it
idk my love did that to me as well.
but ur in his shoes not mine.
As long as it takes you to get over it. Nobody can tell you how long it will take. Could be weeks, months or even years. The hardest mountains to climb are the ones you create yourself. ;) You'll get over it eventually though. It won't last forever.
its depends on u.. try to make yourself busy.. do some stuff's.. or may be get a new friend.. there's no particular time for that...
it depends on the relationship and how long it was and also it depends on if you two are still talking after the break up or not cause that can just make things worse if you both still have feelings it could take a few week or month :)
answer minee :)
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OMG that happened to me to last night and i felt the same way.....................................鈥?i found out he was cheating on me with my BEST FREIND!!!!
I know what you mean the breakup was for the better. But a heartbreak can take a lifetime to heal it can take weeks it just depends on you and the relationship you had with that person.
Depends on the person. Some people might not be able to move on as well as others.
Only as long as it takes to find someone else....
how long were y'all together?? it took me eight months after a three year relationship.
idk it varies for people. but know that yu'll be with someone else in the future and that theres plenty of guys out there that will make you happy
You don't say how long you were together. Generally the amount of time you have invested in a relationship means that it will be longer for you to get over the relationship. It is natural that you would have some sad feelings. It means you are human and it will take whatever time it takes to get over it.
There's no specific answer, but your question kind of contradicts itself. If you don't regret it, how can you be heart broken? Own personal opinion of course, everyone's different :)
But it won't take too long, as long as it was the right thing to do. Of course you're never gonna feel great about it, because that's a bit mean, but like I say, it won't last long :)
You'll be fine, keep busy. It won't take you as long as you think if you avoid the classic mistakes of keeping in constant touch and sitting at home brooding over what went wrong =) Accept how everything turned out and try to push those feelings away, and before you know it you'll be better than ever!
If you don't regret it then it won't take that long. You'll think about him occasionally and most likely hope that he's doing ok, it will take a while not to worry about him. Talk to some new boys. flirt a little. Do something to get your mind off of him. Before too long you'll be crushing on someone else and have those butterflies of talking to a new guy that you haven't experienced in a while.
The typical answer is at least 1/3 of the total time you were together. So do things that you're interested in, spend some time being properly sad or writing in a journal, but definitely get out and have fun every once in a while! Remember, the only thing that can fix it is time and a good attitude. Bring your self-confidence to the table and everything else will fall into place.How long does it take to get over a heart break?
you never get over it it hearts forever but u get used to it
idk my love did that to me as well.
but ur in his shoes not mine.
As long as it takes you to get over it. Nobody can tell you how long it will take. Could be weeks, months or even years. The hardest mountains to climb are the ones you create yourself. ;) You'll get over it eventually though. It won't last forever.
its depends on u.. try to make yourself busy.. do some stuff's.. or may be get a new friend.. there's no particular time for that...
it depends on the relationship and how long it was and also it depends on if you two are still talking after the break up or not cause that can just make things worse if you both still have feelings it could take a few week or month :)
answer minee :)
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OMG that happened to me to last night and i felt the same way.....................................鈥?i found out he was cheating on me with my BEST FREIND!!!!
I know what you mean the breakup was for the better. But a heartbreak can take a lifetime to heal it can take weeks it just depends on you and the relationship you had with that person.
Depends on the person. Some people might not be able to move on as well as others.
Only as long as it takes to find someone else....
how long were y'all together?? it took me eight months after a three year relationship.
idk it varies for people. but know that yu'll be with someone else in the future and that theres plenty of guys out there that will make you happy
You don't say how long you were together. Generally the amount of time you have invested in a relationship means that it will be longer for you to get over the relationship. It is natural that you would have some sad feelings. It means you are human and it will take whatever time it takes to get over it.
There's no specific answer, but your question kind of contradicts itself. If you don't regret it, how can you be heart broken? Own personal opinion of course, everyone's different :)
But it won't take too long, as long as it was the right thing to do. Of course you're never gonna feel great about it, because that's a bit mean, but like I say, it won't last long :)
You'll be fine, keep busy. It won't take you as long as you think if you avoid the classic mistakes of keeping in constant touch and sitting at home brooding over what went wrong =) Accept how everything turned out and try to push those feelings away, and before you know it you'll be better than ever!
If you don't regret it then it won't take that long. You'll think about him occasionally and most likely hope that he's doing ok, it will take a while not to worry about him. Talk to some new boys. flirt a little. Do something to get your mind off of him. Before too long you'll be crushing on someone else and have those butterflies of talking to a new guy that you haven't experienced in a while.
How do I cover my few greys permanently?
I have a few greys in my hairline and on the crown, an ex hairdresser recommended that i use clairol perfect 10 and I did do. It claims to permanently cover greys till they grow out. However Ive found that my greys are already showing again after about 2 weeks. So thats more like a semi permanent tint. Does anyone have any suggestions as to why it hasnt permanently coloured the greys? I leave it on for 10 minutes like it says to on the packet.skin lesions debt
How much would it cost to replace my alternator, including everything?
I have a 2005 Kia Spectra Ex, I replaced the battery, the starter is fine but my car still won't start.How much would it cost to replace my alternator, including everything?
$250 to $450How much would it cost to replace my alternator, including everything?
you better check the battery connections.
check to see if you have spark an alternator wouldnt make your car not start. Check voltage at battery. Check to see if you have fuel at the rail..start with the abc of cars fuel spark compression .. pull the number 1 plug and have someone turn over the car while it is on the plug .. dont hold it ]see if you have spark if not coil is shot if you do press the bicye think on your fuel rail.. if you have no fuel then pour a tiony bit of gas down your throttle body (starting fluid) if it starts then and dies your fuel pump or relay is garbage..
$250 to $450How much would it cost to replace my alternator, including everything?
you better check the battery connections.
check to see if you have spark an alternator wouldnt make your car not start. Check voltage at battery. Check to see if you have fuel at the rail..start with the abc of cars fuel spark compression .. pull the number 1 plug and have someone turn over the car while it is on the plug .. dont hold it ]see if you have spark if not coil is shot if you do press the bicye think on your fuel rail.. if you have no fuel then pour a tiony bit of gas down your throttle body (starting fluid) if it starts then and dies your fuel pump or relay is garbage..
How do I ask HIM to the dance?
Well I LOVE this guy, and he knows that I like him, we have a dance coming up at school soon, but first we are going to a disney land trip with the rest of the 8th grade. We need groups, first of all how do I ask him to be my partner, and then, how do I get him to go to the dance with me.
Also, I told him I liked him over the summer, and then my ex-BFF set him up with another girl that day...
Now, what do I do?How do I ask HIM to the dance?
With words
Also, I told him I liked him over the summer, and then my ex-BFF set him up with another girl that day...
Now, what do I do?How do I ask HIM to the dance?
With words
How common is it to be jealous of past relationships?
Is it common for people to be jealous of their gf/bf's past relationships? Whenever my girlfriend tells me stories of good times with her ex I get jealous, and sometimes I even ask her questions whose answers i know will make me jealous. Like she says that when she first started seeing her ex they had lots and lots of sex because they had lots of free time and went out drinking more often. This drives me a little crazy, is that normal?How common is it to be jealous of past relationships?
It's very normal to have a jealous streak when it comes to previous relationships, but it's not normal to get angry about what may of happened in that relationship. You partner should not be sharing details with you, however, you did mention that you ask questions even though you know it will bother you, so she's just trying to be honest with you because of the questions you're asking. You two need to focus on your relationship together in building it into a beautiful and lasting thing. If you keep dwelling on the past relationship it can and will destroy what you have now in this relationship. WHAT HAPPENED IN THE PAST STAYS IN THE PAST!How common is it to be jealous of past relationships?
It's normal to ';fear'; the unknown, and it can feel uncomfortable to think about your loved one being with someone else. However, there IS such thing as too much information!!! It's not necessary to give specific details about past sexual experiences... Just remember that her past relationship wasn't that great because THEY BROKE UP! Leave the past behind and make the best of what you have now, and don't torture yourself asking questions that won't do anything to improve your relationship.
Life and love are way too precious... Good Luck!
I had a boyfriend who was obsessed with my past relationships. He wanted to know details during sex and then would give me a terrible time afterward because of jealousy. I would much rather have shut out those memories and just moved forward having good times with him. It caused so much trouble for our relationship. If you can't learn to move forward and appreciate the person you are with, you will probably end up being a short story in her next relationship. If she doesn't respect your feelings being hurt by making such a big deal of other men, I am guessing that you will be miserable. I don't know about anybody else, but I would love to feel like I am with someone who thinks I am what they want and none of the other past stuff matters.
Completely , no one wants to picture their significant other with someone else, or at least MOST don't, when I found out how many girls my boyfriend had been with before me , it infuriated me and I questioned his character because of it but you realize there are reasons why they're not together anymore and they're with you , and what they did before you doesn't matter anymore because there is nothing you can do to change it.
it is VERY common and it is totally normal. on the other hand, what your girlfriend is doing is not right. she shouldnt be talking about the good times with her ex when she is with you. it just indicates that she still has feelings for him and is using you as a rebound. so, i wouldnt get too attached to this girl.
Well its one thing to talk about your ex to a new partner, but its another to tell them details that only them two should know about. You should sit your gf down and tell her that you feel uncomfortable about her talking about her ex in such ways. There are things that shouldn't be discussed in relationship.
lol yes.
i hate it of course mine was engaged and she was still coming around up until six months ago.
i mean you got to accept the past with the present. Its ok to talk about those things when needed or felt like but all the time would make me uncomfortable. maybe you should tell her to cut it down a bit
She shouldn't really be talking about good times with her ex's because your relationship matters more now. But jealousy is something allot of people deal with because they don't like the idea of their partner with another person. So just kindly tell her that you would really rather not hearing about things she did with ex's.
its very common! some people are jealouse and tries to get their bf's/gf's back .. %26amp;%26amp; its very normal sometimes i get jealouse when i like someone %26amp;%26amp; they are dating someone else ..
You shouldn't be jealous, but it can sure be annoying. Are you sure you want to stay with this girl? Doesn't she get it that you have no interest in her ex?
No, it's not normal. And it's not healthy, either. It's like picking at a scab. Maybe you should talk to a counselor about that.
Dump this chick man!!! She obviously still has a thing for her ex if she brings up crap like this!!! Besides if you just dump her she'll start digging you even more. And then she'll be under your thumb baby!!!
its very common it happens in all relationships no matter what people say everyone gets jealous of stuff like that.
it is normal
its normai, she may be trying to drop a hint or something
It's very normal to have a jealous streak when it comes to previous relationships, but it's not normal to get angry about what may of happened in that relationship. You partner should not be sharing details with you, however, you did mention that you ask questions even though you know it will bother you, so she's just trying to be honest with you because of the questions you're asking. You two need to focus on your relationship together in building it into a beautiful and lasting thing. If you keep dwelling on the past relationship it can and will destroy what you have now in this relationship. WHAT HAPPENED IN THE PAST STAYS IN THE PAST!How common is it to be jealous of past relationships?
It's normal to ';fear'; the unknown, and it can feel uncomfortable to think about your loved one being with someone else. However, there IS such thing as too much information!!! It's not necessary to give specific details about past sexual experiences... Just remember that her past relationship wasn't that great because THEY BROKE UP! Leave the past behind and make the best of what you have now, and don't torture yourself asking questions that won't do anything to improve your relationship.
Life and love are way too precious... Good Luck!
I had a boyfriend who was obsessed with my past relationships. He wanted to know details during sex and then would give me a terrible time afterward because of jealousy. I would much rather have shut out those memories and just moved forward having good times with him. It caused so much trouble for our relationship. If you can't learn to move forward and appreciate the person you are with, you will probably end up being a short story in her next relationship. If she doesn't respect your feelings being hurt by making such a big deal of other men, I am guessing that you will be miserable. I don't know about anybody else, but I would love to feel like I am with someone who thinks I am what they want and none of the other past stuff matters.
Completely , no one wants to picture their significant other with someone else, or at least MOST don't, when I found out how many girls my boyfriend had been with before me , it infuriated me and I questioned his character because of it but you realize there are reasons why they're not together anymore and they're with you , and what they did before you doesn't matter anymore because there is nothing you can do to change it.
it is VERY common and it is totally normal. on the other hand, what your girlfriend is doing is not right. she shouldnt be talking about the good times with her ex when she is with you. it just indicates that she still has feelings for him and is using you as a rebound. so, i wouldnt get too attached to this girl.
Well its one thing to talk about your ex to a new partner, but its another to tell them details that only them two should know about. You should sit your gf down and tell her that you feel uncomfortable about her talking about her ex in such ways. There are things that shouldn't be discussed in relationship.
lol yes.
i hate it of course mine was engaged and she was still coming around up until six months ago.
i mean you got to accept the past with the present. Its ok to talk about those things when needed or felt like but all the time would make me uncomfortable. maybe you should tell her to cut it down a bit
She shouldn't really be talking about good times with her ex's because your relationship matters more now. But jealousy is something allot of people deal with because they don't like the idea of their partner with another person. So just kindly tell her that you would really rather not hearing about things she did with ex's.
its very common! some people are jealouse and tries to get their bf's/gf's back .. %26amp;%26amp; its very normal sometimes i get jealouse when i like someone %26amp;%26amp; they are dating someone else ..
You shouldn't be jealous, but it can sure be annoying. Are you sure you want to stay with this girl? Doesn't she get it that you have no interest in her ex?
No, it's not normal. And it's not healthy, either. It's like picking at a scab. Maybe you should talk to a counselor about that.
Dump this chick man!!! She obviously still has a thing for her ex if she brings up crap like this!!! Besides if you just dump her she'll start digging you even more. And then she'll be under your thumb baby!!!
its very common it happens in all relationships no matter what people say everyone gets jealous of stuff like that.
it is normal
its normai, she may be trying to drop a hint or something
How do I proceed with adopting my girlfriend's son?
My girlfriend's ex boyfriend was an abuser, and they had a son together. My girlfriend does not want her ex to see her son, considering that he's dangerous. My girlfriend's ex harmed her daughter, who was 1 1/2 years old at the time. What I wanted to know was, if I could adopt my girlfriend's son, even though her ex was an abuser. Is that possible? Her ex has a long felony record which contains burglary, drugs, domestic violence, and illegal possession of firearms. Do I have a good case?How do I proceed with adopting my girlfriend's son?
No. Until the Father signs an agreement surrendering his his rights No one can adopt his child. Family Court will not allow a BF to adopt. You would have to be married. You know, make a commitment to this familyHow do I proceed with adopting my girlfriend's son?
He would need to either sign away his rights,or in this case more than likely,they would be taken away. Then you could adopt. Talk to a lawyer--ask how you should go about doing this the right way.
She would have to terminate his rights in court first. If he sees the boy or tries to see him even if she refuses, and/or he pays child support that might be difficult even if he's abused the child before. She should check the local laws or talk to the court about it. She could get his parental rights terminated relatively easily in most places if he hasn't attempted to see the child in over a year or so, and some places make it easier if the parent has been convicted of abusing the child too. He can probably contest the termination but he'd probably lose.
It looks like you're female though, and I can't tell where you're writing from? If you were male it'd be easy enough once the rights were terminated- you could just marry your girlfriend and adopt herchild. The rules on adopting your partners kid really vary a LOT by state though, so you'll have to look that up.
I'm pretty sure the only way that can happen is if you two get married . At least that's the case in Ontario, Canada .
No. Until the Father signs an agreement surrendering his his rights No one can adopt his child. Family Court will not allow a BF to adopt. You would have to be married. You know, make a commitment to this familyHow do I proceed with adopting my girlfriend's son?
He would need to either sign away his rights,or in this case more than likely,they would be taken away. Then you could adopt. Talk to a lawyer--ask how you should go about doing this the right way.
She would have to terminate his rights in court first. If he sees the boy or tries to see him even if she refuses, and/or he pays child support that might be difficult even if he's abused the child before. She should check the local laws or talk to the court about it. She could get his parental rights terminated relatively easily in most places if he hasn't attempted to see the child in over a year or so, and some places make it easier if the parent has been convicted of abusing the child too. He can probably contest the termination but he'd probably lose.
It looks like you're female though, and I can't tell where you're writing from? If you were male it'd be easy enough once the rights were terminated- you could just marry your girlfriend and adopt herchild. The rules on adopting your partners kid really vary a LOT by state though, so you'll have to look that up.
I'm pretty sure the only way that can happen is if you two get married . At least that's the case in Ontario, Canada .
Does anyone think he'll come back to me?
Okay, my ex boyfriend and I were together for about 8 months. We knew each other since kindergarten but we started going together when we just happened to go to Homecoming together (We are seniors in high school). Our relationship started out really good. We spent a lot of time together and we were highly infatuated with each other. But all that started to change when I switched schools for a month or so. The calls decreased until they stopped altogether and I caught him walking with another girl and he lied to me about it. I was really hurt. But I ended up going back to that school and we ended up getting back together on his birthday and he was sincere about never hurting me that way again. So from there things were a little better but not the same. And so that led to us arguing about stupid stuff mostly everyday, and accusations...because at this point there was no more trust. But for some odd reason we just couldn't let each other go. I felt this way because I felt as though we had been through so much and I didn't want to just let it go meanwhile while he didn't want to let me go because he didn't want anyone else to have me. I know this for a fact because he tried to get me pregnant for that reason and everything. ANYWAYS long story short lol...March 31st he got shot. An like 2 days before that I was texting his phone acting like I was this big time guy around our neighborhood and was telling him that when I saw him I was going to shoot him. I did this because earlier that day he texted me and told me to get rid of my baby. (Yeah I was pregnant-3 months along too) I just did hat I did just to scare him. I didn't know he was going to get shot two days later! So all in all everybody thought I was the one who got him shot and he did too. He had girls calling my phone left and right saying they wanted to fight and everything. No one actually stepped to me though but I still watch my back...But anyway I told the guy whos name I used what was going on because we are good friends and he called my ex's best friend who by the way was treating my ex like he was his son. He wouldn't let me come see him or anything. I showed up at the hospital any everything but my ex refused to let me in. His best friend's pumping his head up with all types of garbage about me and he's believeing it. An everybody's telling me that he keeps saying that he doesn't want anything to do with me. A lot of time passed since he got shot though and I miss him to death because we've never been away from each other this long. I wrote him a letter telling him about everything that's been goign on with me though because I heard he just got home from the hospital. I wrote because that's the only way I coulda got through to him because he had so many body guards working to keep me away. I know he still cares. I jsut know it. I know him too well. But I do think he moved on though and tha's what's really killing me. But in the letter I told him aboutsome of the problems in my life that only he could have gotten me through. An i reminded him about the love we once had. I also told him that I was giving up trying to get through to him because it was pointless since he feels the way he feels about me. Well his feelings according to other people. He called me while he was in the hospital but the person wasn't tryying to tell me who they were so I just hung up and he never called back. I called that number cack and the hospital operater came on and I was so upset! In the letter I told him that I just wanted to hear his voice. An that I was sorry for everything. I sent the letter on a Friday and we have the same zip code so how long does it take to get there? If you all were him would you come back to me? If I were going to have your baby, and considering everything we've been through in the last 8 months? Or should I just let him go? I been trying to get out..maybe this was what had to happen for me to finally get out of the relationship. What do you think?Does anyone think he'll come back to me?
(my math teacher would say, ';Please, air your paper!';)
(my math teacher would say, ';Please, air your paper!';)
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