Ex-Boyfriend tells me to cheat on recent boy friend and come to him?

okay...my ex texted me the other day and said ';Baby... i've changed... i want you back...'; HES the one who broke up with ME in the first place... i don't really want HIM back... and i REALLY love the boyfriend i have right now... he hasn't hurt me... he's more open with his thoughts... and i would NEVER cheat on him in a million years... i have NO clue what to say to my ex... and how do i get him to back off? he seriously wants to seriously kiss me... he just came off his other relationship... she dumped him... and now he's coming back crying to me?? i want to hurt HIM... but i don't know if i should take it maturely or not...?Ex-Boyfriend tells me to cheat on recent boy friend and come to him?
tell him you are in love with your new guy, and he should look elsewhere for another girl. what you had is in the past, and its going to stay in the past. that will hurt him back, he would have been dumped twice.Ex-Boyfriend tells me to cheat on recent boy friend and come to him?
Lead him on, tell him to meet you somewhere





You now have 2 options:





1)Take your boyfriend along with you, and see how fast this guy's sorry *** runs away.





or (my personal favorite)





2)Get a friend to hide with a camera; start flirting the guy a little, go into kiss him and proceed to knee him firmly in the testicles. You then have perfect youtube material.





Don't be mature with him, he doesn't deserve it!
He got dumped by his girlfriend and he is on the rebound and the best place to look is to an ex. Send him a text and tell him bluntly your not interested today or tomorrow or forever and if he text or calls you again you will change your number. Then leave it alone and if he does try to contact you NEVER respond to anything he will eventually stop. Believe me that will hurt him more knowing your happy and have no interest in him at all and he lost big time.


Good Luck
Plain and simple, do not respond and if you choose to tell him you don't want anything to do with this guy. He wants the attention from you, I know how guys are and if he couldn't get some before you, that's all he wants. If you ignore him instead of yelling at him, talking trash or even responding, it shows YOU might have an interest so don't bother.
(If you seriously don't want to flirt with him or get back to him) Like a proper grown up, person respect yourself, don't waste your time over people who has got no value in your eyes. Tell him straight forward that you do have a boyfriend, you want to be with him and you have no interest in him (the ex-b) at all. Then stop answering his calls and TXT msgs!
Don't answer him. how does he know you didn't just change ur number. and maybe you should cause you will be dumped by the Good guy. id dump you for just talking to him.and you have. otherwise how would you know about the kiss. DON'T make all us girls look like fools sweetie, you know its not just a kiss he wants.
No don't cause pain. Just say sorry, but I'm taken and no longer talking to you. And then ignore him for as long as it takes. It'll hurt him much more (plus actually trying to hurt him might make him kill you).
ignore him, its his loss.


Just be happy w.your boyfriend %26amp; stay faithful, you can't go wrong ( :
be like ';cry to her not to me'; and then dont answer anything else.


he doesnt even bother to tell you to leave ur boyfriend and get back with him. he wants to take people down with him. what a jerk.
Tell him your not interested and that he had a chance but he ruined it. If he Loved you that much he wouldnt have broken up with you in the first place!
tell him ur feelings for him are over


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Just keep in mind that exes are exes for a reason. If you happy with this new guy, I wouldn't hurt him and possibly yourself again, but that's just me.
Tell him you don't want him back.


no, you should handle it maturely...don't stoop to his level, hun.


Good luck
dont get back with him keep with your bf





just tell him that you dont want him back !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
telll him you DONT want him back.
he just wants sex and doesn't know where else to look.
just tell him to go away and that you for him and that he made the biggest mistake in his life for breaking up with you but you found some else that really loves you and want to be with you and won't hurt you like he did so you don't want anything to do with him and you don't like that he texts you and it's over and it will always be over he didn't want you then and he's not having you now and he only want you cause the girl broke up with him and want to run back to you like he din't do anything wrong in the first place which he diid and by have contct with him it's hurting you and will alwsy hurt you so i would change you number and just plain ingore him he not with your time and stay with the guy that loves you casue you won't find a guy like him a lot you lucky to have him!!
hey ther3 Juliet,





So, your question is~





';okay...my ex texted me the other day and said ';Baby... i've changed... i want you back...'; HES the one who broke up with ME in the first place... i don't really want HIM back... and i REALLY love the boyfriend i have right now... he hasn't hurt me... he's more open with his thoughts... and i would NEVER cheat on him in a million years... i have NO clue what to say to my ex... and how do i get him to back off? he seriously wants to seriously kiss me... he just came off his other relationship... she dumped him... and now he's coming back crying to me?? i want to hurt HIM... but i don't know if i should take it maturely or not...?';





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say ';sorry u missed ur chance. its ur fault tht we cnt b 2gthr. wat we had is done. u should hav thought tht aftr u break up with me u cnt get me bak. ur fault. im srry. i rlly love ths othr guy. no way im cheatin on him. pls just tak no as an asnwer'; bcuz he prob.just wants u bak cuz his gf broke up with him and he is sad and desperate. and u should b open with ur new bf and tell him wats going on. honesty is a healthy relationship. if u can trust him and rlly love him u should b able to tell him anythin. hope i can help!!! and u should tell him ';u dumped me and treated me lik trash, u cnt come crawling bak to me just cuz som1 hurt u.'; he is a loser for callin u baby and wantin u 2 cheat on ur bf for him. he prob. has no problem cheatin on grls if he tells u and wants u to.
Juliet, this is a very funny thing. I just recently went through the same thing.


I would plain up simply advise you DO NOT cheat on your boyfriend with your ex. Its sooo not going to be worth it in the long run. And you say he broke up with you...hmm...Have you ever heard the saying ';An ex never looked so good until shes in another mans arms.'; Dont let him ruin your relationship. He sees that your happy, and hes miserable, and he just wants you to jump on the boat of misery with him. He sounds exactly like how my ex was. A selfish indivisual.





Honey just smile and keep it moving. And I would suggest that you break of ALL communication with this ex. Because if you don't your headed for disaster. Honestly he shouldnt even have your number. This is just giving him leadway to get back in your head. Im going to show you something that helped me TONS: