Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?

I am 5 months pregnant and I found out my partner has been ';flirting'; with a woman from work and had porn images his ex wife sent to him via e-mail. I discovered this when he left his e-mail account logged on. Admittedly, the porn images were in the ';trash'; folder and he didn't respond to them, but she sent them.





I left him today, but he is begging me to take him back. He said the porn shots of his ex were unsolicited and as far as the ';flirtatious'; e-mails between he and the co-worker, he said she is 65, overweight and a recent widow. He said he went along with it because she was lonely and is a nice woman. I do know she is older than his mother (in her 60's) and is overweight, but she is still a woman.





What would you do? I don't want my child to be raised in a ';broken home'; going between parents who couldn't make it work but at the same time, I don't want him to get away with ';cheating'; kind of behavior and set a precendent that I will take whatever BS lines he feeds me and just say ';OK!'; How could I trust him again?





What do I do? He said he has a hard time feeling guilty like he cheated as he DID NOT do anything physical with anyone. He said he is ';dying and I have to know how much he loves me.'; I don't doubt he loves me, but I do question his motives!Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?
I was ready to tell you to give him a chance till you said that he doesn't feel he did anything wrong. I'm a pretty young guy and even I know that Physical cheating is not the only way to cheat on a woman. If he was just doing it to be nice then he would have said something about it at the very start. If he can admit to being wrong then he might be worth forgiving, but if he can't even see what he has done then he is a lost cause.Im pregnant: What do you do when your partner has had inappropriate behavior and begs you to take him back?
If he loved you so much, he wouldn't have put himself in this situation and betrayed your trust???
Will you listen if we tell you not to take him back? Nope





so my answer will be take him back because that is what you want
Well the fact he deleted the emails and didnt reply is a good thing its beyond his control what other people may do or say its all about he reacts to those situations. So unless he wrote back or something i would let that one slide..





Now, the ';flirting'; with the old fat girl i suggest maybe you talk to him and see whats really going on. maybe even talk to the lady or tell him to tell her that hes not interested but just to be a friend.





If this was the only thing hes ever done the whole time u were with him i would maybe talk about it, keep ur eyes open and forgive him. As long as he never shows any sign of this before
You are overreacting. No offense. But, give the guy a break. He should be angry at you for looking so far as to go in his deleted files. He didn't store these photos in a secret file or anything like that. It was nothing more than a desperate act by a sad woman that he choose not to hurt you with by even telling you. It meant nothing to him, but now you've blown it out of proportion. And harmless flirting with someone older than his mother? When you get into your sixties and you lose your partner in life and you feel so alone, you are going to appreciate the harmless but endearing ways people try to cheer you up with.
Don't believe him! Why would he be exchanging porn pictures with a 65 year old? I wish that you would have found out more about him before you got pregnant! If he is still communicating with his first wife; why are you two together? You are right! It does not matter the size of the woman. She could be 500 pounds. There must be something that he liked about her.





Men are cheating and it has nothing to do with you! Weather it is in person or on the computer; it is an injury to the heart! Once the heart is deceived; the trust is gone! You never view him the same way. Make sure that you are secure as far as him paying child support or spousal support. Men and women are only sorry when they get caught in the act!