Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How should i get my ex back? (if i should)?

Me and my first bf have had this off and on relationship for.. 2 years.. his dad hates me, (or him haveing a gf) and now because of a small webcam thing, my dad hates him... I'm thinking of waiting untill were 18 so he can make his decisions without his dad, and mine.. Also, hes kinda changed, not drasticly, but a bit. i havent been able to talk to him in two months, the only way i could talk to him is going behind my dads back abit... but i feel a connection with him, my friends hate him, my moms side thinks he talks to much, and he lives... 36 miles away? i think.. Should i wait, talk to him, or just give up?How should i get my ex back? (if i should)?
Love should never have to wait...talk to him and never give up as long as love still exists.How should i get my ex back? (if i should)?
If you love him, forget about everyone else's opinions, go after him! :D It will be hard but in the end it will be beautiful :)


Nothing worth having comes easy :)


I wish you all of the best, may it all work out :)


Peace and love x
if you both love each other no one + nothing should stop you (:
Try to forget him if you can.
long distance really really hard to maintain..


u r meeting new people everyday.. n more over when ur love is in front of u. u can only and only think about togethernesss.





may be he is not mature enough.. i think u should wait and analyses if he still changing or this change is just because u r not with him.
Is this really worth the effort. It seems more of a problem than it's worth. Can you not find someone to have an easier relationship with. You are to young for all this hassle. Life at your age should be fun. I think you should wipe the slate clean and start again. It is not so much as pleasing parents, as of course life is simpler when you are young and they approve. Depending on your age, I guess they are at present your protectors, and they may feel this guy is not right for you, maybe with good reason. So yes wait if you must till you are of an age of consent and see how you feel. However do not put your life on hold. If your mum and Dad are happy for you to date, then go out and date other guys. At least it will give you some experience that will colour your judgement as you get older. It rarely bodes well to enter serious relationships at a young age. What we like at 16 we do not usually like at 21. Good luck and I hope you have a great life. Just a bit of sorting out to do. Oh and do not go behind Dads back, you will feel uncomfortable and it takes the edge of true happiness. Mind you one day you may marry a guy your Dad might not be keen on. You will be old enough then to know your own mind, well if we really ever do. Take care.

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