How do i get over my ex that i gave it up to?

i like him so much and he made it seem like we were perfect and he didnt warn me or anything and all of a sudden he breaks up with me and im literally shocked i didnt see this coming from him... im hurt and torn... but even more because i gave him my virginity.. %26amp; now i know thats all he wanted but how do i get over him?





please dont call me a slut or anything.. if so then just forget the question and move on im already depressed.......How do i get over my ex that i gave it up to?
The fact that you are asking for help and that you realize your mistake indicates that you are intelligent. My guess is that you probably feel it is very important to be cared for or ';belong'; with someone. Take your time and hang out with many people (guys) and get to know them. Find a guy who likes you for you, and take it slow. There are always guys who will want to move you toward sex and nothing else. That does not seem to be where you are at. Make them earn your love, and make them wait until you are ready for a more physical relationship. If they don't wait until you are ready they aren't worth it. Good luck.How do i get over my ex that i gave it up to?
Sweetheart all you can do is learn from your mistakes.......guys will tell you anything to get in your pants, thats never changed. They have dick for brains for a long time. So how do you get over him, one day at a time.......but don't buy into all the lies so quickly and trust me if he knows how much your still thinking about him, one friday or saturday night when he has not been able to score he is going to call and tell you he misses you and he made a big mistake and is there anyway you guys can get together and just talk. Now this is where the '; learn from your mistakes comes in'; because you have to know he is just trying to get back into your pants for a quickie so now you have to say to him.....'; oh yeah I know we all make mistakes I just don't want to repeat them, have a good night'; CLICK';





Don't be depressed, be thankful your not pregnant!
honestly, the same happened to me as well, the only thing you can do is give him his space. that lets him know you're not obsessed with him or anything because you gave it to him. its hard,yeah. me and my ex broke up like a month ago, dated for two years. imagine that. he acts like he hates me. guys need time to mature, if he realizes he made a mistake he'll be back, if not the only thing you can do is move on, know you're still living.
give it time i knw ur hurt but i knw how u feel like cuz i did that to my girlfriend we went out for about a year 3 months and i took her virginity and broke up with her out of the blue and moved on to another girl and first i didnt feel anythign towards the break up i was just happy of the break up i did have feelings for her but i was too blind to see what i had infront of me well to sum it up months later i finally realized what i had wen i saw her wit another guy and i learned my lesson so what im trying to say is what goes around comes around i knw it hurts now but pretty soon the pain will gradually go away next time around just be a little bit more careful just knw all guys arent the same theres some good ones
Well, I'd say time is the answer here. It's not going to be easy, I mean everything will probably remind you of him, but you have to know that the part the he played in your life is over. Don't ever take him back, just move on. It's better that way. Try and just live your life, make the best possible decisions and in time everything will be okay. Good luck.
well everyone makes mistakes dont feel bad you just got carried away just think of all the bad things he did to you and how you will be better off not thinking about something that really hurt you talk to more guys as friends stay single for a while and have fun going out keep yourself busy and remember for next time dont have sex with someone you dont love even if you really like them because you will regret it later and you also have to make sure he loves you back
Girl...you have to get over the depressed stage first:


eat your favorite ice cream be sad for awhile cause its normal. Then understand that there are thousands of fish in the sea!!!!! Dont let him see you sweat!!! Find someone else to talk to but dont sleep with anyone no matter how fine they look or as good as they make you feel. Give yourself time to heel! And dont speak to him at all. Cause he will probably try you again. Dont give him the satisfaction!!!!! Now learn how to be heartless like a guy but with enough love to make them think you care....cause SOME men/boys need to be toyed with. lol


good luck!
im sorry about that. but think of it in a different way. Maybe one day when u have a daughter she may be in a similar situation. Because u have already gone through this u can advise her not to make the same mistakes u did by giving it up to a loser bf. Hes a loser and karma will get him
time heals, i bet that was a shock, thats why i dont even kiss my bfs until i have been in the relationship for about 2-3 months, sounds crazy but i always have the upper hand. How to get over him....well think about how he used you, you don't need that in your life. just take it one day at a time. it will get better.
Time time time. I was severely hurt after my break up. But you need to think about how much of a jerk he is. Be glad you dont have kids and that you can start a new life with someone who will actually care about you.
hes a loser. if all he wanted was sex then that was a jerk move. sex doesnt mean too much but maybe it does to u... only time can make ur feelings about him pass. sure ur always gonna have feelings for him and always remember him but theres always another boy. :) answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>