How do i tell if my boyfriend still cares for his ex girlfriend?

me and my boyfriend have been togther almost four years and i his ex girlfriend use to always start stuff and when we've broke up before he ends up with her but hes never cheated on me and were together everyday and i know he loves but sometimes i wonder if he still cares for her he hates hearing people talk about her and he calls her a slut and a whore..what do you think?How do i tell if my boyfriend still cares for his ex girlfriend?
if she was his first girlfriend he loved(even if he did not), he may always care . you may not know what happaned between them or something and just caus ehe goes backs to her means he is used to her and the comfort , not that he loves herHow do i tell if my boyfriend still cares for his ex girlfriend?
Obviously he loves you and is commited to you since he's with you every day. 4 years is nothing to shake a stick at. He probably feels a little something for her. He's never cheated, that's something to be proud of. Keep her out of your relationship. Don't talk about her anymore. Sounds more like she ain't over him, and lays in wait for YOU to screw up, so SHE can pick up the pieces. Don't give her a chance to foul up your relationship!
okay me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 yrs to and if we broke up bc of something little and he had enough nerve to go back to an ex then yes you can count on that he still likes and cares for his ex. my boyfriend would never ever do that. a break up doesnt mean that your done for good its just time apart to think. and if he did do that i would never go back with him. how old are you? i mean do you all live together or what? its weird he dont like ppl talkin bad about her. i say run out of that as fast as you can.
He probably does still care about her....we all care at least a little about the people we've been with.


But four years with you-thats a long time. He may still care about her but he obviously cares for you MUCH more and loves you MUCH more because you are the girl hes with now. Don't doubt his feelings for you, because it will lessen the quality of your relationship. Just trust him, and trust that hes with who he wants to be with.





Help with mine please?


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Let me get this straight....you broke up and he went back to his ex. Then you got back together with him, and he insults his ex behind her back?





Sounds like neither of you know what you want.





But, to answer your question, caring for his ex and still LOVING his ex are two separate things. If he cares, he will talk about her. If he still loves her, he will go back to her.
was she his first serious girlfriend? my opinion is you NEVER truly get over your first serious crush. hell i'll never get over my first crush and that was 8th grade! he may still have some tiny feelings for her, but you are the one he loves. if yahoo answers isn't helping you, then you just have to talk to him. good luck hon!
Aw. I think he's over her. But shes like his booty call. he goes back to her when your not with him because he knows shes there. And just to make you jealous.


Because if he wanted to be with her, he would be with her.


But he wants to be with you.


Im assuming.
You've been together for four years?





How about you just ask him? Surely you're close enough to have an honest discussion after four years.
stop thinking of the past. and tell him to stop saying such words about her. If people are still talking about it for over four years they still have not grown up yet.
you need to let it go the more you think of this the more it will ruin your relationship