Is it bad to be jealous of my husband's ex's?

I know I shouldn't be, but sometimes I can't help it. I've always been overly jealous. But now I have been really bad. I stopped talking to all my ex's because he didn't like it. Which was fine, because I never really cared to talk to them anyway. But he still talks to all his. Nevermind that, when his friends were over just now, he was opening up his facebook and bragging about how hot they are and such to his friends. And I know it's normal for men to look at other women all the time, but I just can't stand it. Especially when he would say, ';I'd **** that';. So back to the questions, is it wrong to be getting upset or jealous about that? It's a regular thing and sometimes it just gets really bad. I thought it might have gotten better once his daughter was born, maybe a little, but he hasn't changed a bit.Is it bad to be jealous of my husband's ex's?
I would not marry someone that did things to make me jealous all the time. It is a terrible way to live. Facebook strikes again! Your husband is insensitive. Why be jealous of his exes? You should be kicking his butt for comments like that.Is it bad to be jealous of my husband's ex's?
I would be very hurt about the comments. Was he like this before you married him?
Excuse my English but he's a pig. You have every right and every reason to feel the way you do. This is not your personal insecurity (jealousy), this is relationship insecurity and you feel this way because he rubs this trash in your face. This by the way is emotional abuse and it will not stop until you put your foot down and draw the line.





There is no room for double standards in relationships. To make this worse, he's your husband. This is blatant disrespect and a violation of your wedding vows. Consider it a breach of contract. From that point of view... how do you proceed? Tell him this is not acceptable behaviour.





If you let him get away with this, he will escalate.





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You are not wrong to be upset over your husband's behavior. Some men are like that, mostly because they don't really realize what a jerk they look or sound like. Have you tried to talk to him about it? Have you told him that his behavior with his friends makes you feel like crap or like he must have made a mistake in marrying you because he wouldn't be talking about these girls this way? If you could broach the subject gently and calmly, the behavior may change. Don't bring it up when you are overwrought, because it will lead to screaming and tears on your part and him tuning you out. Tell him that when he brags about his ex's and talks about what he'd like to do to them, as well as keeping in contact with them, that it doesn't make you feel really great about you. Let him know that you love him, and that you've shown him that by ceasing all contact with your ex's. Don't ask him to stop communicating with his ex's, but do ask him if he could think about your feelings a little and refrain from acting like the bachelor he no longer is. You may even want to write all this out just to get it sorted in your own head before you go to him, or if you are unable to talk about it without getting irate, write him a letter. But, I want you to remember one thing. Your husband married YOU. He comes home to you and your daughter, and he had a choice in the matter. Nobody stuck a gun to his head and made him marry you, he made that decision on his own. So in that respect, it's not worth your time to be jealous of those girls, because they lost. You won. His behavior is immature, but I am sure that if he loves you (which I'm sure he does), he can try to change his bachelor behavior if he knows its hurting you.
If he does that right in front of you then thats a bad sign. its not bad to get jealous because he is looking at other girls and saying ';I'd **** that';. is stupid like HERE I am, look at me. i dont know.








good luck!
That's just awful what he's doing to you. To me that's mental abuse and a HUGE lack of respect. I would be jealous too, and have lots of doubts about a husband who treats me that way. I sure hope he grows up soon.
He is an uncaring a**ehole,I would be very hurt if someone I loved was acting like this.You deserve better.
The problem is not your jealousy... it's HIS immaturity!





Any man who would disrespect his wife that way is not worth keeping. Are you very close to your mom? What about a sister?





Take the child and leave (because he's not going to get better). If he has the audacity to brag ';I'd tap that'; in front of you, just imagine what he's doing when you aren't around!? Also, how DARE he prevent you from talking to old flames, when he is doing the same thing? He's a pig.





Guys like this are usually immature, needing to PROVE themselves to their buddies. I HOPE that you will move in with someone who loves you (a parent or close friend), and begin you life anew. Eventually, you will meet a REAL man who treats you with the respect and kindness you deserve.





Focus your life around your child, and yourself. My sincerest wishes for your future happiness.





Love %26amp; Blessings