My BF and I have been 2gether for 5 months now. At 1st when we started seeing eachother he talked to his ex everyday. She would send him pics of her in her stripper outfits and he even told me that she text him wanting sex from him (knowing hes with me). We did argue about this because I did not know why he felt the need to keep in contact with her if hes trying to make it work with me and get to know me. He had stopped texting her so much and he had not heard anything from her. So he decided to send her a text and she never responded back to him. I just don't understand why he feels the need to still keep in contact with her. They never really had a real relationship in the 1st place....they only use to sleep together. He even would sleep with her when he was with another ex gf. This is why I don't feel comfortable with him wanting to keep in contact with her since he told me how he would sleep with her when with this other ex. When I tell my BF how I feel about this and try to talk to him he gets upset with me. I just want him to put the shoe on the other foot for a minute and think about how he would feel if it was ';me'; talking to an ex that asked me to have sex. In fact I did turn the story around on him and said, ';thats ok, I still talk to my ex that asks me to have sex.'; and he was upset about it. So I guess its ok for him! Opinions and comments will be appreciated.My BF talks to his ex (who will text him wanting sex)?
He's just not that into you.
Seriously, your boyfriend does not care about you at all. You are way more into him than he is into you. Leave him now, it'll only get worse. I'm surprised you are with a guy knowing that he has cheated before. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You're a smart girl... leave this guy and find someone who actually cares about you.My BF talks to his ex (who will text him wanting sex)?
For one thing you should avoid loosing your trust to each other. It will ruin your relationship. If you don't have any proof that he's being unfaithful to you then stop thinking bad against him. You've been together for only 5 months now, and there will be more trials that will come, hope you could hurdled it by being strong to each other.
eeeee....bad trait for a bf. also you said he cheated on another girl with her? yeah, i can see why you'd be upset..thats a bad temptation for any guy. tell him you're serious, that its hurting your relationship, and that he's making a choice to text her like she wants rather than not text her like you want. which is no bueno.
well if he's still talking to his ex after all this time he's apparently not over her. its not fair for u to keep on goin through with this. he has no reason to get mad at u for something that HE is doing.
Sounds to me like he is lieing. He s sounds llike a cheater... I would be carefull...
alright
well this guy is an *** hole...once a cheater always a cheater
he oviously dosnt care sbout your feelings right now and if he gets mad when you bring the ex up tell him to shut up and listen ...
';I am are no girl to be played with and if you want me to stay with you u better make up your mind before i make it up for you';
and if he thinks it was ok to have sex when he was still with his other gf..he just sounds shady already
i know yoiu know what to do........break up with his ***
This is simple. Advise your boyfriend that he needs to tell her to stop sending texts, and he needs to stop all contact with her because she is clearly disrespecting the relationship you have with him. He then needs to ignore all texts except to delete them immediately. If he fails to do this, you leave him.
He must understand he can either have you and totally ignore her, or you can find someone else who won't do this to you.
I don't understand why he would text her again. I was in somewhat of a similar situation. Sometimes guys get a major ego boost when they get attention from idiot girls like that. But if HE'S the one initiating contact, I would put my foot down. If he doesn't respect your feelings, drop him and find someone else. And if he's telling you about being with 2 different exes at the same time, what does that tell you about him?
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