Dating Rule: No ex's lurking in the background.
There is no time limit to start dating again after a breakup.What is your stance on ex's?
Its an ';EX'; for a reason, friendship is only if you and the other person can handle it.
I do not think that ex's can be just friends. You know to much and maybe have had intimate moments which can make things awkward.
I would date someone if they were friends with my ex, but first i would definitely get to know the person, and make sure dating them would not cause strife between person and your ex.
Time apart from ex to consider dating again for me varies on how long the person was together with that person. If it was under a month not time limit, under six months, at-least a few weeks, and over a year at-least a month.
Currently I am not talking to my ex at all for the five months, even though she wants to be friends. I am friends with some of her friends, nothing serious, so she still probably finds out info about me, I just do not talk to her. Ex's are ex's for a reason and if it did not work out the first time, chances are something will not work out again. This does vary per reason for break up.
Yes but only if your willing to just let them do what they want because now they don't have to answer to you
Some ex's have to be friends- it kills me that my bf's ex is the mother of his child so they have to speak, be friendly and see one another forever...so yeah, they can be just friends. Ex's are ex's for a reason- they didn't make their ex partner happy or fulfilled, but it is pertinent to make sure you arent just a rebound from a long term ex, so a little cool off period is good in my opinion :) PEACE! xxx
I think you can be friends with an ex it all depends on the person how well they can handle being around an ex. I am not friends with any of my ex's because its just easier for me to make a clean break and move on of course if I saw them around I'd say hello and have the appropriate conversation. I would never though keep an ex's number and call them to hang out or have dinner and go to the movies. I stayed friends with an ex once I date him for six months and we stayed friends for about 5 or 6 years after that but the friendship became physical not long after it started. We're neither friends not friends with benefits anymore.
Normally I never talk to them again. There is one tho who found me on face book and he sends me sex pics of him and his current girlfriend. Its weird, yet entertaining.
Do you think ex's can truly be ';just friends';?
Answer ~ Not really. In order to move on, get over it, and truly heal, you have to be away from them.
Would you date someone if they were friends with their ex?
Answer ~ That makes things more difficult on a new relationship. Would you always be wondering if their history is stronger than the new relationship? How would you feel if they went to the ex's 'rescue'? What is binding them together, that they did not, or will not make a clean break?
How long does someone need to be apart from there ex for you to consider dating them?
Answer ~ However long they dated or went together, then that much time at least. (If they were together a year, it will truly take a year for him/her to get over the ex.) It takes a max of about 3 years to get over a divorce, or break-up after a serious iinvolvement
What is your stance on ex's?
Answer ~ It takes two totally mature, responsible, intuitive, respectful individuals to pull off a break-up, then a 'friendship' after ~ their is always a connection.
I, personally, do not want someone with whom I, or my new partner, had a sexual relationship with hanging around.
it's kind of hard to be just friends directly after a breakup. i'll occasionally talk to my last ex (we broke up a year ago) something like ';wow that test was annoying'; but only if i have no one else to talk to. you shouldn't be on bad terms with your ex, because usually they know a lot about you and could make your life hell if they really hate you...
NO EX's at all. NEVER unless of course they are a parent to ur child. ex's jus cause trouble. My bf was friends wit an ex for a while and she was cool at first but then she started talkin bout me behind my back and i cud tell she still wanted my man so iwas like noooo wayyyy.
it depends on if you loved them and or had sex or not cause those two factors are big on bein friends with an ex and if it was a bad break up cause those three things usualy cancel out friendship but it depends
depends on if there was kids involved and they share custody otherwise whats the point . x's that stay friends can often find themselves in a convenient sexual situation because they have crossed that line before . some couples stay in contact to keep an open chance of getting back together when their done playing the circuit or someone to call and whine to when they get in a tiff with their guy or girl . to be close to an X and no kids involved is BS and can often be problematic
Not possible. I never understood why you would want to be friends with an ex anyways. I mean once you do the relationship thing I think it just gets weird afterwards. Jealousy seems to follow after you stop dating
I think that you really can be just friends with your ex as me and my ex are really good friends and we get on a lot better for it we just weren't meant to be. yes i would date one of his friends after about 4 months although i would probably tell him as i wouldn't want him finding out from another person as that may course bad feelings.
hope this helps.
Personally I would favour the stay away from them option. Lol.
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