Monday, August 16, 2010

How can I get my ex girl friend back. Do any females have any good answers besides moving on?

She broke up with me because of my neglect towards her. It wasn't on purpose. I didn't even realize the stupid mistakes I was making until she was gone. Since then I apologizes sincerely and we still keep in touch once awhile through e-male and text. I have done alot of introspection and realize where I went wrong. What else can I do on my part to show her I still have strong feeling for her.How can I get my ex girl friend back. Do any females have any good answers besides moving on?
Tell her you love her to her face if someone said that to me id be flattered, Tell her you will show that u love her more,Hang Out With her :)How can I get my ex girl friend back. Do any females have any good answers besides moving on?
move on





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Show her how much you care,


in person.


She will take you more serious.
Well don't be like stalker-ish. First become friends with her and let her trust you, and take your time with this and soon you will get closer. When you are really close friends just show her that she can trust you and care for her a lot. Then you can ask her to be your girlfriend!Or you could always make her jealous by lyk goin to a party with some other girl and lyk introduce her to that girl.Trust me I would be soo jealous and ya im a girl:)





hope i helped:)
Every girl loves attention - fact. So, do something extravagant for her! Buy some roses and get them delivered to her house with a card to say sorry and that you love her and you want one more shot at your relationship. You could deliver the roses by hand if you wanted to. Write her a letter explaining how you feel and that you know what you've done wrong. Just do something like that to let her know you've changed and that your serious about having another shot.


Hope this helps!
You answered your own question bro: ';I have done alot of introspection and realize where I went wrong.';





Tell her that. Tell her that you still love her a lot, and that you want a chance to prove it. If that doesn't work, then move on, but give it a try and make it sincere.
Besides moving on.. then just keep telling her what you feel and think.
dont move on .. if you really have feelings for her just talk to her.. thats really the most u can do.. ask her if she would give you a second chance.. tell her what u just said that you know where u went wrong and uve thought ab it alot .. tell her u really miss her .. good luck!
If she doesn't want you, man, she's not gonna have you.
idk ask her out again
Make her like you again, tell her you want a fresh start, talk to her rarely, but send her roses, give her poems, go see her to 'hang out' get to know her again, then maybe she'll like you again:)
Hey this is Kenda, answering on my guy friendsaccount cus u asked for a womans opinion :)





if u reallly want her back, then u gotta prove to her that u can b the man she needs. do random acts of kidness, send her flowers or a card, give her a sweet text or email jus to tell her randomly that shes beautiful and you love her and that you hope she has a great day. maybe she wills ee how much she really does love you and then she will take you back. goodluck :)








-Kendra
move on, son. once they fall out of love for you, they are too busy riding someone else to think or care about their past. move on.
This is probably corny but what about flowers? I don't recommend chocolates just because she really won't eat it and (in my opinion) i just want flowers no poems. It all depends on her if hse likes poems and chocolates. For me any flower is nice, as long as its beautiful and brightening. I would suggest going 2 her house when she's home. Say your sorry, and tell her u can prove that ur more better than when u 2 were together, and tell her that u cant' move on, u only want her now
buy her flowers and chocolates :) seriously.... I was so mad at my bf he begged me almost crying to get back with him. I acted like if I didn't want anything with him no more but he came to see me and had flowers and Godiva chocolates :) I was like wow awwwwww thanks you can leave now lol jk no I found it so cute. He apologized for the mean words he said to me and ever since he has been good.
Tell her youre sorry for how you treated her. If you love her and she loves you it will work. If not then its not going to work. But you have to show the most respect for her. If it doesnt work, move on just like she will
You said you neglected her? Well why? Make sure you want her, and that you have time for her first before you go on pursuing her. Also make sure this isn't just a situation were as you just don't like to lose anything or anyone and that in fact she is someone you like having around as a friend and a lover. After considering all of this and you realize that you are truly sincere about getting her back, then consider what you did to impress her in the first place. Behave like you want her, show her how you feel, not with words all the time but with action.Be kind and considerate and attentive, notice her hair, her eyes, her feelings etc... If you know that you are not willing to give her what she required from you in the first place don't waste your time or hers. :^)
Does she love you still? if so, show her that you are sorry. I don't mean cry in front of her, what im sayong is, get out and prepare something special for her. Something romantic that she cud not afford of rejecting you.
I had a boyfriend who neglected me terribly and to be honest flowers aren't the ';fix it'; everyone seems to think. Because he was so self-absorbed he was that way with everyone. It was a bad character trait. Instead of doing the introspection you did, he just got mad at me when I gave up and left him.





We'd probably still be together if he had spent time getting to know me and how my mind works, what my goals are, what my fears are, what I'd like to change in myself, what my strengths and weaknesses are.....well, you get the point.





That is how you show a girl they matter to you. KNOW her. Make a list of questions like ';what is her favorite food?'; then answer them. Show her the list and see if you are right. The flowers would make her happy for a minute, yes do that, but they are still mostly about you.





If your efforts don't work then at least strive to change that trait in yourself so the next relationship will be happier for you both.





P.S. this was when I was not one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Believe me, living by God's standards regarding courtship and marriage makes all the difference in the world. Talk to JW's if you get a chance.





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