Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to get ex-girlfriend to leave me alone.?

I recently got dumped by my girlfriend. She does this a lot because she wants me to plea to be taken back. After 2 years of this, I was finally done with it, and just refused to take her back and after listening to melodramatic messages about how she threw all the things I gave her away, I refused to take her back. Now she calls me 10-15 times a day and does not leave me alone. When I shut off my cell phone, she leaves me skype messages that are miles long and sporadically tries calling every 15 minutes for nights at a time. She leaves me facebook messages that are infinitismally long as well. I feel as though I am borderline stalked and cannot be left alone. How the heck do I get her to leave me alone.How to get ex-girlfriend to leave me alone.?
I'm agreeing with Mainframe. Give him the 10, ahah.





That happened to me once, though i didn't date the guy, nor did i like him. ever.





i had to be mean, i felt HORRIBLE, but now we're pretty good friends. haha.How to get ex-girlfriend to leave me alone.?
Wait, she broke up with you and is now begging to be taken back? Dude, that's kind of hilarious. If I were you, I'd be a heartless bastard and play games with her because it's obvious that's all she wants to do with you.





But to really answer your question, you need to be stern in telling her to leave you alone. Don't be afraid to yell and cuss. It might be the only way to get the message across. Tell her like you're a Marine Cpl disciplining a belligerent PFC.





EDIT: Holy crap, someone agreed with me. Epic history has been made.
Call her and tell her she is exhibiting stalker-like behaviour, which in other words is criminal harassment. That despite 2 years of on and off behaviour, the relationship is definitely off, and you don't want any further contact, directly or indirectly from her. You have moved on, and so should she. If she fails to do so, you will have no choice but to call the police and file a complaint, which would then probably result in charges being laid against her. Then keep a diary of any further contact from her with a note of dates and times, and follow through with the police. As for your cell phone - either change your number, or block her number from your cell. Facebook - duh, delete her as a friend/block her. Not sure how skype works, but there must be something similar you can do for that as well. If you really don't want the contact, then you should be following through on removing her opportunities to do so.

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