How to get over my ex? He dumped me and i'm still not over him. I really want to move on with my life?

He dumped me 6 weeks ago. I want sooo badly to move on. I just feel like all the guys i meet aren't as nice or good. Ughh i just want to move on. He dumped me cause he said he didn't like me as much as i liked him. I dk i'm going off to college in the fall so i know its for the best. How do i get over him?


oh and he was my first bf...


thanksHow to get over my ex? He dumped me and i'm still not over him. I really want to move on with my life?
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Funny, my boyfriend (first also, although I'm a sophomore in highschool) broke up with me because he liked me more than I liked him, and it was too painful for him. So it's switched. This may make me sound bad, as it probably makes your ex sound, but I really was heartbroken. It's been about 5 or 6 weeks since then, and it doesn't hurt as much anymore, but I felt lost. It's very hard to see someone you let into your heart go, and feel all your hopes slip away. To make it worse, 3 weeks after dating me he started dating someone else, and I remember I couldn't even eat. I was a wreck. I hated the pain, but a part of me didn't want it to stop because it would mean fully accepting everything had changed, and not in the way I wanted. I felt left behind. =/





The best advice I can give you is this: You really have to believe in yourself. You had a life before him, and you will have a life after him. And if you keep your chip up and keep on chuggin' through this, I promise you it can be even better. And if you're like me, maybe you're stronger now because of it. Just work on you. Be the best you can be. Do not (!!) degrade yourself- I did that, and it only makes the cut deeper. Don't blame yourself. A relationship is a two way street, and not all of the things on it are under our control. If he didn't like you as much as you liked him, well he's missing out. We can't control who we fall for. He couldn't control whether or not he liked you. I know I'm rambling, but you have to believe there is something better out there. Don't let yourself fall into the trap of thinking this is all there is.





Try to do things to occupy yourself. I knew from the very beginning that I'd have to get up and keep moving, but in my heart I didn't want to. I wanted to mope around and wallow... I wasn't ready to move on. But the best thing to do is focus on your life, and try to take this time as an opportunity to grow, FOR YOU. Keep in mind that doing things for yourself doesn't mean you have to forget about him, just like that. It doesn't work that way. Believe me, you will heal, but it will be at your own pace. And that's okay. =] Relationships come and go. This was a sad thing for me to realize, but it helps to be positive about it. We can't always help who stays in our life and who leaves, but you will find someone. I'm sure of it. In the meantime, love yourself, and live your life to the fullest.





And your going to college! You will definitely meet new people there. You may even meet someone more amazing than your ex. People always told me, ';You'll get over him. There are a million fish in the sea.'; and I wanted to roll my eyes. You might already know all this, but it doesn't necessarily make the hurt go away any faster- people didn't seem to get that. I knew all of this, but it wasn't helping me. My point is that sometime there is not set way to ';get over'; someone. It's different for everyone, and no one can let go of a person just like that. It comes from you.


I wish I could truly do something to help make it better, but it's all on you to find that inner strength. My best wishes to you.





Remember to reach out to friends. The good ones won't mind, and can actually help a lot.How to get over my ex? He dumped me and i'm still not over him. I really want to move on with my life?
You should have more fun act like you don't need him because in actuality you don't! It's his loss! He broke up with you so he doesn't like you anymore, when my boyfriend broke up with me i had this little glimmer of hope that we would get back together. no. It never happened and I was utterly crushed, so take my advice, and leave him to his life and find yourself someone new it'll! save you a lot of time!!!
Wow..it's already been 6 weeks and you haven't found anyone yet? You have plenty of time girl. If you're going off to college, I wouldn't even be looking until there!
There is no method or formula to help you get over an ex . You just have to depend on time and the help and support of your friends and family. More over ,I would suggest to you that since you want to get over him and you are going off to college in in the fall to also look forward to meeting new people in college . The minute you get to school and see the choices you have ,you would not even give your ex a second thought. You have already been able to deal with his absence for the last six weeks so you can do it as you have proven to yourself. With each passing day ,it becomes a lot easier even though he was your first love and it is much more difficult to get over a first love. So hang in there as you are almost home free.
Okay first: Make sure that you are doing this for you, not him. If you're doing it to make him know that you don't need him, then its a lost cause.... you should really do it for yourself. I tried to make a guy think I didn't want him anymore when he had already moved on...it made me feel pathetic.


Secondly, if he did that to you than he's obviously not the one for you. There is someone better out there, you just have to open your eyes :) I know how that is too though, but there are. you're just not expecting to see anyone better.


Thirdly, spend time by yourself now before you try to jump into a relationship with someone else... From the way you said it it seems like you're looking for a new bf.. Just learn to be by yourself first. THEN when you're ready move on.
for one its only been six weeks it can take alot longer then that to get over people but once you find someone better which you will you will be happy i promise just keep your chin up and focus on a career and friends in the meantime :)
Things will change for you in collage..count on that! You may never fully get over your first love but it will be easier as time goes on. you will meet someone and it will fade but it will take YEARS before you can look back and smile on that time you had.
First stop comparing other men to himn that is a sure fire way of becoming a spinster. 4econd, go out on dates and enjoy yourself, this helps keep the mind off thibs. Third, time passing.


Though from personal experience my first love has never truely died in my heart, that was like 8 yrs ago but I have moved on its just a cherished memory hope that helps
Get rid of everything that reminds you of him, and realize that you are better off without him and that he was only bringing you down. Once you can go at least a week without thinking about him, you're golden. Also try to move onto other guys, some will be bad but some will be good.
Have fun being single for a little bit. There's plenty of great guys out there that youl meet in the next few years. Go out with the girls and flirt flirt flirt. That doesn't mean hook up with every guy you meet, but just let yourself feel comfortable being out and single. Good luck. :)
It's all in your head..just remember that...basically you probably wouldve kicked him to the curb after seeing all the hot guys at college and it wouldnt have phased you, but since he dumped you, you feel rejected...I dont think that it's him you are stuck on as much as the being dumped feeling....best thing for you to do it is go full speed ahead....dont you dare look back. you are going to have so much fun in college that by the time you finish you wont even remember his name. So...you go girl...go forth and conquer..lol.
Then Promise yourself no emotional contact(sex or flirting) again until marriage. You will be over him completely


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